some guy like hightech gear.. buy him one such as DSLR, Ipad, Lappy or plan some roadtrip/holiday with him..

1# bring him to a short trip. never tell him the destination and make sure he is free that whole day. prepare a cake+lunch/dinner.

2# get him something he always dream of but never thought of getting it himself.

3# tied yourself with a ribbon and surprise him with homecook meal

4# get both of your friends or relatives and give him a surprise party

2. well, u can always considered getting him something cheaper related to that expensive stuff. ie, he likes collecting models, u can get a key chain models or a lomo camera if he likes to take photo or he likes cars, u can get a small model car of that.. etc watever that u can think of.

4. pakat with his parents, ask him to balik kampung n u meet him there? or ask his parents to come to ur place will do too. or just have surprise lunch/dinner somewhere will do too. just a surprise only mah.

Cook for him, make it romantic and sweet. Then finish it off with a wild night for the finale. Done.

Alone on birthdays? no friends? Is he a loser? seriously that's sad.

Anyway, something hand made would be great, it shows that you cared so much so to put in the extra effort for his gift. And as always finish it with some awesome steamy action in the bedroom.

er.. i already gave some of the ideas lo... it's depends on u already on how to make what ever you planned to work.

Only losers need friends !!!
And, the last sentence makes sense, extremely =D
Back to the topic, try to buy him somethg that you know he'd likes.
Well im not pointing those expensive stuffs, budget urself,

Guess that's so if ur bf not those kind of romantic-holic.!!

Or, simply tie urself with a ribbons like those forumers said + some rattan/rotan for him

TS, where u live?
if at kl, just rent a hotel, spend a dinner at some romantic place/eat cake at room with him.
the pour the cake at your body, look how he eat it   

why not?
just do the "crazy" thing for him.
consider as birthday gift since u never do like that before right?

guise dun like surprises...
just let him do wateva he wants tat day would do

disagree.
yes, male dont like being told what to do.
but consider as they have 2 years relationship.
the bf will spend the day with his girl.
and surprise will make he remember she more often.
for TS, here the link for find cheap rate of hotel.

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/1730674

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Added on July 6, 2011, 10:14 amother thing,
seriously do a crazy thing for him.
anything. seriously he will remember u more often.
if no cake, ice cream also can pour to body.

If your bf is 20 that means this coming birthday is his 21st birthday?

If that is the case you should make a gift that can last so he can still remember this memorable occasion when he look at the gift in the far future.

You can look at this website for more info about 21st birthday presents http://21birthdaypresents.com/74/21st-birt...asured-forever/

Also that site have lots of birthday quotes and poems. Can use 1 of those to impress him

Do you really want to do something special for him?

Really?

How committed are you?

Wow.  Okay. I guess you're ready to hear what I have to say then.

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Blowjobs. How comfortable are you with blowjobs? No experience at all? That's perfectly fine, you don't need any.

Seriously, I don't think anything else can beat blowjobs for birthday surprises. Just do the usual outing to dinner and a cheesy gift present to him wrapped in a birthday wrappings. Then when he reach home liao and go take shower, turn off the lights. When he comes out he'll be like "Wadafak why the lights are off..." THIS IS WHEN YOU POUNCE ON HIM, AGGRESSIVELY UNDRESS HIS PANTS AND MAKE HIM YOUR BOYTOY. THEN GO WITH THE FLOW, JUST REMEMBER TO SALIVATE ENOUGH FOR LUBRICATION. GOOD LUCK~! 

no offense but how u hang out with him?
never been at his house?

I wonder why girls duwan to give their BFs the 'night' of their life. I don't mean the mundane usual bonking, but make it like a special kinky thing that suits his fantasy, guys would enjoy this more than ANY gift, ever, guaranteed, unless he's gay. Women usually like to avoid the simplest solution and ideas. Sigh...

Okay fine, I apologize. You said you wanted it to be special, NO? Well that's the most special bday gift I've got from a girl!

Seriously tho, virtually anything you do for a guy who has never celebrated his own birthday will make him happy. So quit worrying about ideas and just do whatever you wanna do. You could frickin bake him a shitty chocolate cake or give him a gentle kiss on his forehead or make him a jar of handfolded origami stars for all I care, it doesn't matter, it will be special to him. 

Dump him, reunite after his birthday.
There, that wasn't so hard, is it?

its funny that most of the suggestions here are not BERSIH..haha

TS, make handmade stuff hor him..a plushie or a card would do well.. then cook a meal for him.. bring him out for a movie and then end it with a romantic night ( i dont mean steamy events), just two of you talking about anything...not sure if you understand what i mean..haha

Well, what is your budget?
If you ask me, as a guy, i would want something that i can use.

Girls like giving perfume/necktie/cufflinks etc but those presents are horrible for guys !!! Those kinda gifts benefit the girl more than the guy. It's the equivalent of guys giving girls sexy lingerie so they could bonk her in that.

Tell me ur budget then we'll think of something.

LOL, i wonder where u get this, girls are as horny as guys, just that the thought doesn't cross their mind as much or can sometimes control/suppress their urge better than guys.
you don't like or you have never experienced? if you have and you did not enjoy it, visit the doctor, something is wrong, all sexually active girls that i've known love sex so much more than even the guys. If you're a virgin, well too bad.
Sorry for the tidak-bersih posts, lol. Like Priapuseros said, if he had never truly celebrated or received gifts from anyone, whatever you give him, he will cherish.

RM200...

Well I am a gamer, RM200 can buy a good game.
If he's into sports, RM200 can buy shoes if both of you are not superstitious.

RM200...

Well I am a gamer, RM200 can buy a good game.
If he's into sports, RM200 can buy shoes if both of you are not superstitious.

aiya, go for one day trip lah, u become the driver n bring him to any special holiday places like waterfall la, beach la, bowling, go ride bicycle etc.

btw, just come up with this idea of 'coupons'. something like free massage, become driver, do cooking, clean, go kai kai etc.

You have experienced and you did not enjoy it? something must've went wrong, technique, position, duration, no fore play, no emotional connection, all this could lead into a bad experience. If it is pain and discomfort, visit your trusted gynae asap. The others can be fixed, have a talk with your partner.

Anyway, have fun on his birthday, bring him to dinner or something, give some hand made presents, etc. Good luck!

Oh, he is a PC gamer...
no sense in buying him an original game then

Have you ever noticed most girls like to travel?
Girls like to travel because of the experience. Whereas guys prefer
to spend that money on something they can use for a long time instead
of just a 1-time experience. So i think vacation, special experience stuffs
are a no-no.

But it's up to you.... you know your BF more than anyone of us.

Girl, this is a problem that needs to be solved. 

OFF TOPIC

i'm a girl and yes, I do agree too.

There should be a reason why you don't like it right? Talk with your BF and discuss what's the wrong with it. Don't have to discuss here cos that's not the purpose of this thread.

Ohhh yes. Sex is an important part of life. It's like not knowing how to drive. 

Honestly, for someone whose into Yaoi, i find it hard to believe she doesn't like sex.
But whatever, if she says she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it.

I don't like eating vegetables... is it important to know why?
Leave her alone.

TS doesn't like sex huh? Pity her bf... future cheating b@stard

I baked a birthday cake and bought a necklace for my ex last year. We celebrated on his bday eve and when the clock strike 12am, i whispered "happy birthday" in his ear. I just feel tat celebrate with just the two of us made it special... 

How abt a nice perfume for ur bf?
Nice fragrance that makes him remind of u when he smell his perfume scent ^^