QUOTE(mikehuan @ Aug 15 2011, 04:11 PM)
how do you encourage someone to start weightlifting? lately my mother is pretty worried over my younger bro who spends all his time in front of the pc. hes on semester break and has loads of time in his hands.. want to encourage the fella to have a healthier lifestyle and since he doesnt really play sports i suppose weightlifting is the easiest thing for him to learn and continue doing when he goes back to school in a months time.
thing is, he doesnt seem interested, not even when he has a bench and a couple of db's in the house (where he spends ALL of his time). I have taught him the basic moves, bookmarked my fave sites to get articles and advise and still no luck..
It's depend on one's character. I'm the only son in my family, only have an elder sister. My mum and dad play only badminton and bowling.In my social circle, none is BB/weightlifting; I played basketball and football since small. Started in this when I want to buy a dumbbell to be stronger. Then came over sites and eventually came across and found that BB/Strength training is a big field involving lots on diet/nutrition, of course sciences in working out. And damn I start to love it, seeing myself getting smaller (lose fat) and of course getting better look (that's when my teachers and friends start to praise me in school).LOLx.
Then some of my friends started doing the same, for the abs, for the V-taper, to be like movie star, to be stronger etc.
I got this exact experience, when I try to force my buddy (who was at 120kg) to start changing his life. He was there training with me,whenever I trained. But if our schedule crash, I trained on my own, he doesn't even move at all. Then later, he started to say that "I do taekwondo/swimming/badminton every week.I actually muscular but just covered with fat.". Then I choose to give up on him.
Until one day, he came to me and ask "I feel that I need to work on my chest. Otherwise, when I'm slim down, I lose the muscles, you know, those on arms and chest." I responded saying "You have big chests and arms now, but they mostly fats. But still you need to cut down while building some muscles,by lifting and play with irons." Still, he say "yeah,right." And after months, he is still having the same exact lifestyle, no changes.
What I want to say is, it's up to someone to find what he likes and why he likes that. You can tie your brother and made him do whatever you do, but as if he doesn't enjoy, he wouldn't bother to do it HIMSELF. Until he really like it and want to do it.
What you can do, is sincerely tell him why you want him to do that. For look, for health or for everything, made him feel that.
My mum wasn't like me doing these things due to the perception (Hulk is bad), but now she is very encouraging. Thanks to celebrities who started taking off clothes promoting beauty of muscles.
LOLx.