before i met my boyf now, i was a p before
even i'm with a guy now, i don't even "look down" or anything to tom
*since my sis is a toms too *

somehow, i dislike those guys or girls said tom is ahgua or whatever.
i think everyone has their own right to be who they are
about the couple case, yeaaa.. guy will always feel waste when they saw a very pretty girl with a tom
cause i believe love is about heart not gender

and also tom's life ain't easy
cause some of their parents don't even agree about this. and even friends
i think i'm not out of topic? LOL

My dad also say if my brother turn gay, he will disown him.

But then, to me, gay/les/bi/transsexual/tomboys characteristics is not something we can control. If a person is that way, then let them be. It's much better than making them be someone they are not just to please others and then regretting it when they grow older.

 

speaking of public washrooms, you suddenly remind me of a particular incident that occur to me.

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In short, there's this one time me and a few friends of mine ( gal ) were about to watch a movie. We entered early, so there we were sitting around chatting away till the movie starts.

Suddenly I had the urge to 'release' and of course, i had always felt much secure to bring along a female friend with me to the toilet ( i suppose it'll make it obvious to the others inside that ' I AM A FEMALE AND I WANT TO PEE!'. )

So as I was heading towards the toilet and about to enter, there outside, stood an uncle... and all the pulak I saw him looking at me .. I am quite sure he initially thought I was a male and why the hell am I walking into the female's toilet.

In the toilet, there pulak , was an auntie with the similar stare ... thankfully there were other tomboys inside    Got quickly to finish up my business and we dashed back into the cinema. By that time, the auntie has left!

Back in the cinema ( where the movie's about to start, and the room's already filled ), I and my friend had to walk across a few seats as our seatings are located right in the middle. As I sat, and look to my right, to my wonderfully-astonished-coincidence, I notice that uncle & auntie ( i guess they are husband and wife ) sitting just right next to me  . ..  yes.both of them noticed it was me .. as how it is obvious i know it was them.
---awkward---
conclusion, requested from my friend to exchange seats.

before i met my boyf now, i was a p before
even i'm with a guy now, i don't even "look down" or anything to tom
*since my sis is a toms too *

somehow, i dislike those guys or girls said tom is ahgua or whatever.
i think everyone has their own right to be who they are
about the couple case, yeaaa.. guy will always feel waste when they saw a very pretty girl with a tom
cause i believe love is about heart not gender

and also tom's life ain't easy
cause some of their parents don't even agree about this. and even friends
i think i'm not out of topic? LOL

u tomboy then enter male toilet ah ?

on the toilet incident, i think it's normal la...
give u a counter example, me as guy walk into toilet, if a gal is standing there in front of the mirror, my initial response is of course shocked.
i will look at the girl awhile (maybe exactly the same stare that you get from ppl when u go to the ladies), look around my surrounding to make sure who went to the wrong toilet, me or her

they might stare at you not becoz u r tomboy and they discriminate u..it's just that they are confused, like what i describe  

what's p? 

I am fairly new here and I do apologize if whatever I will be writing on 'offended' anyone. =)
Hope I am posting it at the right 'section'.
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If you have all noticed, there's a huge increment in the number of 'tomboys' we have nowadays. Back in the years, it is quite obvious that these sort of 'culture' isn't as much obvious as we have right now.

I,myself am a tomboy - and it wasn't until 3-4 years back that I cut my hair short, and dress that way. ( *cough* it's not because I wanted to follow-on the trend but being 'guyish' had always been how I am since a little girl ) Because of the lack of exposure on 'tomboy' trend back those years, I was forced to 'fit in' and hell 'ya, I really don't feel at place. 

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However, being a tomboy has put me at some awkward spot ( maybe because it's Malaysia - not countries like Taiwan where tomboys are already considered a 'norm' * i suppose* )

In particular, I get 'looked' at. I don't know if they are staring out of admiration / curiosity / or plain 'confused'
Don't get me started on talking about times where I have to go pee pee in public wash rooms. 

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How do you all react when you see tomboys? What do you look in us? What is particularly going on in your mind? 
Particularly if you are straight male/female, how do you find or will react noticing tomboys?
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For girls who are attracted to girls, would you prefer being together with tomboys?
I know tomboys are usually much more attracted to long-hair fem , and likewise... or the other way round. 
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Currently right now, this is what I have ... might start bombing forumers with other of similar questions in case something comes into mind.


terima kasih

what's going through my mind will usually be "I wonder if she likes girls" followed by "I wish I could have that kind of hair style" XD tried going tomboy once, failed miserably.

seems good looking and i wonder how they look like if they wear in a very girlish way

I don't care whether a girl is tomboy or not  , as long as she is pretty and have nice body

too bad my office have one girl behavior more than a tomboy... laugh rudely... more rude than real boy =.= and her muka mintak penumbuk...
she very panic in everything... or should i say act panic? lolz...
and every small problem she will make it look like BIG problem...
when she talk, it's like whole office ppl also can hear it... decibel high.......

hmmm, my tom boy colleague age around 29 - 31
still single...

if not because of company i wont deal with her...
cant tahan...

I second that ..
same situation- macam mirror ar 

uh!! maybe im in same company with u? lolz

Cheras?

1. How do you all react when you see tomboys? What do you look in us? What is particularly going on in your mind? 
Particularly if you are straight male/female, how do you find or will react noticing tomboys?
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2. For girls who are attracted to girls, would you prefer being together with tomboys?
I know tomboys are usually much more attracted to long-hair fem , and likewise... or the other way round. 
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