Unsafe sex includes sex of any kind without condoms. These symptoms can appear even if you perform or receive oral sex such as cunnilingus, anniligus or fellatio.

Nipple sucking does not transmit any form of STI unless there is an open wound or lacetating. For HIV, it is a extremely small risk as this is also dependent on many other factors on both parties. For Herpes, the risk is high if there is an open wound nearby. For other STI, I really do not know but I do not think you would want to take any risk if you see a wound of any sort around the area.

A well known doctor in the Malaysia has said that most STI are a result of unprotected oral sex and this was published in the Star sometime in January of this year.
Using of condoms during oral and vaginal/anal sex will guarantee that no STI can infect you unless the condom breaks during sex. French kissing a person with an open wound/sore in her mouth can still make you susceptible to herpes.

If you frequent sex workers or have a lot of one night stands:

Use a condom for both oral and penetrative sex

This ensures that you are 100% protected from any STI unless the condom breaks during the act.



This post has been edited by STDinfo: Jun 3 2010, 02:55 PM

Well with your statement even with a condom we still can't prevent cases such as through french kissing or nipple sucking right?

yeah especially hurpezzz, because its skin contact, and you wont know if one has herpes unless theyre under bright lights or u notice the inner mouth lesions besides the wound on the lips or the outer layer. We know how much of a conservant malaysians are when it comes to making up under bright lights. And what about mononucleosis aka mono, the thing fck ups your system so bad, i remember having it in my college years and i thought iw as going through the stages of aids phase. I felt weak and fatigue for months until i fully recovered.

Kissing and getting blown isnt safe unless u know the person.

Not for herpes no. But the truth is, a large percentage of the human population have herpes in their system. The mouth cold sores (HSV-1) that you experience during your childhood and chicken pox are caused by the herpes virus. Many people carry the herpes virus are asymptomatic which is why it is so easily spread. Chances are, you may have the HSV-1 in you as well because it's so easily spread.

Having HSV-1 grants you some protection against HSV-2 but this is not always the case. You can still have HSV-1 and HSV-2 at the same time. Statistically speaking, the chances of male acquiring herpes from the female is about 3% while females have an 8% chance of catching it from males during the viral shedding stage. If open wounds are present, this percentage jumps up to 60 to 70%. Remember HSV-2 can also occur in the mouth and HSV-1 can also occur in the genitals.

The fact of the matter is this - both HSV-1&2 are not life threathening and will not cause any health complications other than being a recurrent annoyance in your life.

I know I shouldn't be asking this kind of sensitive questions here but I really hope all the bros and sis out there can help me out with this. I visited a massage parlour in Thailand recently and I really dont know there are hanky panky services inside. I think after 45 mins of massage, she began to ask for some extras. Since I'm a first timer and I never touch any girl before, I decided to go for it without thinking of the consequences. I thought it should be very safe as I don't have any sexual intercourse with her but there are something appears in my mind after the session

1. She kissed me lip to lip and I think I got a broken gum that time [due to the dry weather], is there any possibility I'm infected with HIV or STD ?

2. I did licked her breast and accidentally bite her. She told me she got a one year old daughter, but I think she is not lactating. Let's say if I drank one or two drops of her milk, is it possible I am infected too ?

3. As I lay down, she did ride on me and rub on my penis with her vagina for around 5 mins. She is wearing her panty throughout the whole process, but I am unprotected without condom.

4. She did teached me how to massage her clitoris. I got a finger's nail cut that time cos I used to bite my fingers. Is it possible for me to be infected ?

5. She told me she got no AIDS but who would tell if they have it.

6. I got a new mouth ulcer today [嘴破], a little cough and sore throat, a little bit of dryness on my tongue and upper part of my mouth.

7. One time intercourse with an AIDS infected person will confirm AIDS or there are some chances I am not infected ? I dont have vaginal intercourse with her but I'm afraid of her vaginal fluid passing through her panty and the virus transmitted to me.

I am having imsomnia for few days already and I really dont have 3 months to wait since I am going abroad. From the situation above, how high is the possibility I am infected, I want an honest answer. I really regret now. Hope you guys can help me out and thanks a lot.

This post has been edited by Cruxidex2010: Jun 6 2010, 01:03 AM

Rx:

beer 1 tin
steak 400 g
sig: take 1 tin of beer and steak each night





ok jokes apart..........chance is quite low (except number 7).......
as for the symptoms.......i believe my prescription above will help you get some good sleep and rest your mind

if symptoms (broken gum today [嘴破], a little cough and sore throat) persist........go consult a doctor....

by the way.....it will be helpful to post the closeup picture of the broken gum just in case it might be a primary lesion of STD

Bro, I suggest you to have medical checkup, no matter got infected or not, it is a must for you. Let's say if you are infected (hopes it is not), you can have early treatments. If the diagnose shows you do not get infected, then you are buying "安心". Don't be shy to see a doctor, they are professional which will help you. This is normal and will happen around the whole world everyday.

For sure I will go for doctor or medical test, but it's 3 months later. I know nothing about AIDS and ignorant about it before

This post has been edited by Cruxidex2010: Jun 6 2010, 02:18 AM

1) go look up online on symptoms.

2) any fluid that u excrete from inside ur body (if u have aids) have the possibility of passing the disease.

Go to any health clinic, request for an anonymous HIV test. As long as you're a Malaysian you only pay Rm1 for the service. Result is almost instantanous.

Why 3 months later? Nothing is important than your health rite?

I google before, it needs at least 3 months time for a confirm result. Tests within 3 months time were not accurate and now I just want to know how high is the chances or possibility I am infected ?

This post has been edited by Cruxidex2010: Jun 6 2010, 02:23 AM

Contrary to popular belief....the thailand prostitutes/"extra service" provider are actually very concern of their own physical well-being ...

Besides, there's no point worrying about stuffs you can't control now...

> If I said yes..you got AIDS.. what would you do?
> If I said no.. you don't..What would you be doing instead?

Therefore, please live your life to the fullest and avoid all such temptations / danger. Best is for u to ask a doctor what are the chances for u to get it as i think forum answers are not reliable for this.

I think the chances quite high. Any clinical doctor will do or I have to go for medical lab ?

HIV+ and AIDS are completely 2 different things. If TS are being given PROPER suggestion and shit happens.. he can still go for treatment to ensure his condition doesn't become full blown AIDS by taking meds to slow down the progression.

chill bro, everything willl be alright! sawadeekaaap

R u sure he will be alrite..coz from what i see he is infected with something..
i also suggest u se the dr..u can ask ur fanily or frenz to take the result from the dr..
rather than juz went to oversea like that..ur health is the priority..

Point 1: The environment of the saliva is very harsh for HIV virus to develop. Therefore, unless there's an open wound in her mouth that's bleeding - the chances are slim to none. Even with an open wound, the chances are still extremely slim.

Point 2: It depends if she's HIV infected and how much milk you have ingested and if you have any open wounds in your mouth. As I have said, the harsh environment caused by your saliva disrupts the HIV virus. It's an extremely slim chance you will be infected this way.

Point 3: Unless her vaginal fluids manage to enter the penis urethra or touch an open wound in your groin area. No, you will not get infected by rubbing or grinding against her. Like all viruses, HIV is incredibly fragile and does not survive well outside the body.

Point 4: It is possible but there has been no documented cases of anyone being infected with HIV via fingering. Any chance that you could be infected here is slim to none.

Point 6: HIV usually take many months if not years to manifest the initital symptoms. Relax

Point 7: It's like a lottery. For some people, even with direct unprotected sex, they do not get infected. But rest assured that if you did not have oral or vaginal unprotected sex with her, the possibility that you can be infected with HIV based on what you have described is close to being an impossibility.

If you wish to know your status, you may go for free anonymous rapid testing 6 weeeks after this encounter.

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1. I don't know if I had ingested her milk, perhaps no. If I did, may be one or two drops. Is that sufficient for the transmission of virus ? I do.n't think she is still lactating, I mean her baby already one year old
2. She is rubbing mine with her panty on and I think both of us got pre-cum. That's what made me think it's possible.
3. Yes, there are no documented case for fingering but I got a finger's nail cut before the session

Thanks for your time

This post has been edited by Cruxidex2010: Jun 6 2010, 01:11 PM