QUOTE(JonRay @ Apr 26 2015, 09:46 PM)
Hi folks
me and my girl had plans for the coming weekend
due to the long holiday we opted to visit one of Malaysia's many islands
the plan is firm. everything paid.
We had sex before
my girl hates condoms. tried multiple brand, tried lube, she hates it
she said it's painful
she have erratic period cycle. sometime 2 months, sometime 4 weeks for her to get her menses
the last one she had, first day on 13/4 to 20/4
based on my calculations, and online checking, that weekend will be her fertile weekend
intercourse is gonna happens. she will wants it. and she will want me to use pull out method on top of that
the only thing that can save our asses right now is postinor/ ecp pills
this will be the first time she take it. (we are in LDR and meet once a month, so sex is irregular)
let say we have sex on friday morning, and chances are one or two session would still happens on saturday and sunday,
will the postinor be effective? which day should she take it? should we take anti nausea meds as well?
since we are taking boat ride, i'm afraid that will worsen the nausea side effect.
BTW it was her idea to use ECP. we have no plans to continue using ECP for long term. Birth control pills and the subsequent weight gain freaks her out.
QUOTE(JonRay @ Apr 26 2015, 09:53 PM)
forgot to add
I also read on ovulation test kit
if we buy this, test, and the result came negative, should i be less worried?
the thing is the ovulation test kit if not mistaken test for surge of something before the egg is released. i'm afraid it's does not check on anything after the egg has been released
Firstly, there is already a thread on ECP. Topics merged. Go read up this thread.
Secondly, since it's only a one weekend thing, take ECP anytime this weekend. Get her to speak to the pharmacist for more info when she buys the ECP over the counter, or you speak to the pharmacist if you're the one buying it. Use both pullout method and ECP for this weekend.
Not all BCP will result in weight gain, although it's pretty common due to hormone changes. There's no point for her to take BCP now as it won't be helpful for this weekend anyways. It'll take time for the body to adjust to BCP. May even bleed for a month after consuming BCP. So there goes your sexy time. Unless you guys are having regular sex then she might wanna look into BCP, otherwise, don't bother.
Nausea meds - up to you. Hormones affect everyone differently. If she is prone to sea sickness, then go get some anti seasick pills. She may not even have any side effects after taking ECP. Not everyone will get seasick. And seasick pills need to be taken 30 minutes or so before hopping onto the boat.
As for her erratic menstrual cycle, get her to see a gynae to see if there is anything that can be done about it.