Ya, appreciate you sharing these stories. I am sick and tired of hearing only the good side of people working overseas and seldom i've heard the other side of the story. it's good to have 2 both sides of the story, not just one sided tale.

Hey, those migrated don't agree is because they try to convince themselves they made the right decision. Don't come back la, stay in the place where you have migrated and you still be a migrant... forever. You still go to malaysian church or asian churh what even thoug you are in overseas. can assimilate into the mainstream society meh, not really la...naive people...

The point i am trying to make is that some of the people who migrated tend to have alot more tolerant level when the country they migrated to has negative impact on them. especially in orang putih country. For example, when they go to the immigration dept in australia or banks in australia, even though those people working there (usually white people) are slow in attending to them, they (the migrants) dare not make a fuss about it (i witness this with my own eyes). But when the malays are slow in the govt dept in malaysia or the malay staffs are slow in the banks in malaysia, we tend to be very aggressive towards them, some even scolded them (again witness with my own eyes).

What i don't agree is alot of this migrants when they go to western country, they tend to suck up to the white people, eventhough the things they do may be as bad, if not worse than the malays back here in malaysia.

For example, when going to interview in the govt dept here in australia, asians migrants generally can't get the job, but instead they don't admit to the fact that racism is happening, they tend to say well maybe they require different skills set and etc. But in malaysia, when govt dept don't hire non-malays, we will say is racism. I'm not saying racism in malaysia don't exist, of course it does. but it also exist in the western society also, but these migrants is like not willing to accept the fact that it exist.

I get the feeling like they think white people is more a superior race, so is ok to suck up to them. And even rejected by them, the migrants tend to think that they are not good enough yet. But the way we, Chinese treat malay attitude is like they are less superior than us, so we cannot be "neutralise" by them, and if they reject us, is not our problem, must be their narrow mindedness.

Sometime we need examine out attitude first before we blame everything.

Yes, i do apologize for the provocative tone of my remarks, but actually it is to stimulate discussion like what we are having here.

Ya, you are a very smart boy.