hi any confinement lady at puncak alam or bandari sri coalfields?
preferred chinese
Confinement Lady, Recommendations
Confinement Lady, Recommendations
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Mar 11 2015, 11:51 AM
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316 posts Joined: Nov 2008 |
hi any confinement lady at puncak alam or bandari sri coalfields?
preferred chinese |
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Mar 11 2015, 11:53 AM
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316 posts Joined: Nov 2008 |
hi any confinement lady at puncak alam or bandari sri coalfields?
preferred chinese 0128338910 |
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Mar 12 2015, 11:07 PM
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722 posts Joined: Mar 2013 |
I would like to voice or you call it brag (in /k) my opinion about my CL but this does not mean it applies to all CL out there. I only hope people will be more knowledgeable if they have an opportunity to select their CL in future. Also make sure to read more and not just rely on CL solely.
In short, I just want to say my CL is not worth that 4.4k. The long story is, this is only my first week with my CL and I feel she is showing her laziness. Don't get me wrong. She is not a bad or cruel kinda person but all I can feel now is that she is here to get paid 4k+ to cook, eat, sleep and to look after the baby during daytime only. It seems like a pretty easy job to me and perhaps I should consider doing this CL job too since it is that easy. The problem now starts when we noticed our baby is turning yellow after some time. We just did a blood test several days ago and jaundice level was normal but because the baby is sleeping so much, she is not drinking much milk that is required. The CL didn't seem to bother much because it feels to me as long as the baby is sleeping and not disturbing everyone at home, then we should let it be. The problem is that the baby does not know how to demand for milk yet and when the baby is not getting enough of that nutrient, jaundice will come back. So we finally requested that the CL must wake the baby up during day time every two hours and in the middle of the night for at least 3 times and she told us to set our own alarm clock for the wee hours. Strangely, we are fine and not mad with it maybe because this is what it means and feel like to be parents for the first time. End of the day we feel no matter how it is really necessary to have that additional person at home to help look out for the baby but just like I said, she don't worth 4k+. A nanny that ask for 1k can do the same job too. For mothers that are planning to breast feed, please remember that you need to feed your baby min 8 times a day and also please remember that breast fed babies have higher chances of obtaining high jaundice. Make sure you continue feeding the baby min 8 times a day until the baby gains enough weight and knows how to demand for milk by him/her self. Also another tip to new mothers that wonder why their baby sleeps so much. Yes, your baby does require that long hours of sleep everyday but you still need to wake your baby up for milk. Baby feels most comfortable when they are all swaddled up and warm (30+C). In this situation, the baby can sleep for hours. So don't let your CL swaddle the baby up so comfortably like a cocoon because if your CL is just as lazy as mine, your baby will have very high chance of getting yellow too. The other thing I want to voice out about is the confinement food. I find it contradicting because here you are not suppose to eat too much vege because it can cause too much wind in the stomach but there you said its better to eat brown rice. Doesn't brown rice contain higher fiber? The second thing is vinegar pork. I thought confinement time is not suppose to eat too much fattening food but can you tell me which CL does not cook vinegar pork? Im not sure if its only me but all these confinement negativity is creeping up on me. SO just wanna thank you if you read through my brag and if it helps you, then I wish you all the best in selecting your CL. But if you feel its TLDR and just wanna lambast me, please do so. |
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Mar 25 2015, 12:03 PM
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608 posts Joined: Mar 2010 |
Looking for confinement lady in ipoh. Due Oct thanks
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Mar 25 2015, 01:16 PM
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15 posts Joined: Jul 2012 |
Any recommendation for CL in PJ? Due July. Also according to what I heard live-in CL now cost around RM4k+. If non-live-in anyone knows how much that might cost? Thanks.
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Apr 3 2015, 02:36 PM
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23 posts Joined: Mar 2012 |
Any intro for confinement lady in klang due in sept?
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Apr 4 2015, 06:46 PM
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5 posts Joined: Apr 2015 |
QUOTE(fai@fai @ Oct 3 2014, 11:52 AM) my wife went back penang after her confinement for few weeks. the confinement lady visit her and help my baby boy to bath and change.... for me is quite good la...like after sales service anyhow i will find her again if got chance |
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Apr 11 2015, 09:14 AM
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74 posts Joined: May 2010 |
Hi,
Anyone has engaged CL from mediguidemoms? I tried calling the number 0102322785 on their website but no one is answering the calls. |
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Apr 15 2015, 07:21 PM
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I strongly recommend my good confinement lady (Stay in) to Malaysian and singaporean people. She can cook well confinement dishes and taking care of baby. We called her "Ah Keow" Aunty. She had 6 years experienced and taken care over 40 nos of babies. She is a friendly and full of love nanny. She can speak well chinese, hokkien, malay and a little english.
If someone look at confinement nanny can contact her (019-472 1803) ah keow aunty. Guarantee you will satisfy hers service. Reasonable Price. This post has been edited by Iwis: Apr 15 2015, 10:16 PM Attached thumbnail(s) |
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Apr 17 2015, 11:53 AM
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May 4 2015, 09:18 PM
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5 posts Joined: Apr 2011 |
Hello,
Do you meet the 2nd confinement lady before you confirm with the lady? Because im interested on this lady, but i never meet her due to she is not able to meet us. She asking for deposit for RM1000, if want to confirm with her. May I know she can be 100% trusted? Scare it's a scam. My wife EDD is very near already, worries she cant make it. QUOTE(momo-sang @ Apr 21 2014, 04:33 PM) Hi All, I just want to share on my experience with 2 different CL that i recetly hired. First CL Detials as Below (BEWARE of this CL!!! Name : Auntie May (May Jie / May 姐) Phone Number : 0169785541 Location : Ampang, KL Charges : RM3800 (+ RM200 AngPow) Attitude: - Dirty -Bath once a day only. Din brush teeth. - Change cloths once a day even after cooking, feels oily, still touch my baby. - Wash my wife's and baby's cloths at night (9-10pm) after soaking it starting afternoon (3-4pm) then leave it in the pail after rinse. She use to hang the cloths next morning. Eventhough my wife wants her to hang immedietly, she refuse to do so, claiming that "Its ok one, no smell one, don't worry.". In fact, the cloths that she wash is so smelly. - Spoiled my aircond fin. Instead of using remote control, she manually adjust the aircond vent fin and end up the fin latch breaks. - Lazy -Wake up by 830am after i go to work, then slept more than 4 times a day. -Always ponteng kerja. Go 1hr bfast and 1hr lunch time at my condo's mamak stall. -Not caring on baby even when baby cries. Leave it for us to take care. Keep saying "Its good for baby to cry" - Not cleaning the kitchen after she use it and even not wiping my dinner table after her meals. Leave all the "Sisa-sisa" food like rice or soup drops on the table and floor. End up i need to clean it for her. - Financially Unstable - Beside pay RM500 deposit for her service, she requested/borrowed another RM1500 advance claiming that she needs to pay for her house loan, else bank going to lelong her house. Now total RM2000 with her. - Always introduce some other products saying that she is selling some MLM product which is good for my wife. - Healthiness - She has 风湿. Work awhile already whole body pain. Thats why she always need to rest every 1-2 hr times. - She SMOKES!!!! But she din admit, however, I get to know from the "Urut Lady" that she introduce to me. Claim from Urut Lady (Very profesional and High Recomended) that this MayJie always ask her to buy cigrattees for her everytime she introduce some business. Thats why they banned her. - Profesionalism & Experience - She knows just basic for confinement service. Basic chinese herbal also she don't know where she ask me what is 北芪. - She even tried to cook 炖椰子鸡 for my wife during the 1st week on confinement. We told her Coconut is very 凉 but she don't agree. - She din cook soup most of the time for my wife unless we request. Keep saying just need to ginger and wine will do. - Cooked 杜仲补腰汤 at the 3rd day for my wife where she is not suitable to drink during 1st 12 days. Conclusion: BEWARE of this CL! She worked for 7days only, then I fired her. She commits to return the balance of the money i borrowed her (RM1000), but its after 3 weeks aleady, still not return to me yet. Second CL Detials as Below Name : Auntie Leng ( Leng Jie / 玲姐) Phone Number : 0172493986 Location : Rawang, Selangor Charges : RM3800 (+ RM200 AngPow) / (My case: She just request for half RM1900 + RM100 AngPow due to she worked for 2 weeks only) Update: Available from Jun2014 to Sept2014. Nov2014 to Dec2014. I found her from a sales girl from Enfa. Highly recomended and luckily she agrees to help me after a week that i fired Aunty May as above. Attitude: - Clean - Wipe and clean my kitchen everytime after she use it. - Help me sweep my hse (Although i told her i can do it myself since my hse is small only) every morning. - Hardworking - Wake up by 630am daily. Prepare bfast for my wife and take care of my baby. - Always ask my wife what she wants to eat, then she will prepare accordingly. - Wash my wife's and baby's cloths every morning and hang it immedietly. - Financially Stable - Beside paying RM500 deposit, she says the balance just need to pay when she completes her job. Very Steady! - Healthiness - Very healthy aunty. Looks strong and proffesional. - Profesionalism & Experience - She is very experience in taking care of baby and mum. - Beside that, she cook nice food as well. Trust me, quite tasty! - Very polite aunty, always inform us whenever she eats or rest. Although I told her, I understand if she is tired becoz of taking night shift taking care of baby, then need to rest more during day time. Conclusion: High recomended if you are looking for a trustable Confinement Lady. |
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May 5 2015, 11:29 AM
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217 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Kuala Lumpur |
QUOTE Hello, Do you meet the 2nd confinement lady before you confirm with the lady? Because im interested on this lady, but i never meet her due to she is not able to meet us. She asking for deposit for RM1000, if want to confirm with her. May I know she can be 100% trusted? Scare it's a scam. My wife EDD is very near already, worries she cant make it. You mean Leng Jie? Yup...i met her. |
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May 7 2015, 12:58 PM
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17 posts Joined: Nov 2009 |
Just want to share my bad experience wit the confinement lady that I hired last 2 months ago, her name is Jio Di (in Chinese) 012-21xxx92. Cost me rm4.5k
1) she doesn't want to listen and follow what we say , and say want to hang her cloths and underwear here n ther , she even hang her underwear at my BB's room window , this make me very angry, she's very stubborn my family dislike her very much 2) lazy, Don wan to use her brain to think what food or soup I can drink , even she blame y my mum cook papaya soup which cause my milk got wind and at nite bb is crying bcos his stomach got wind -.- 3) troublemaker, kepoh - during fullmoon she keep stick to my in-law side and talk abt me and my family bad things. My mum ask her to look after baby she shoot my my back infront of all the people. 4) the last day, she even steal my confirent soup chart which I get frm a chinese doc. 5) after cooking without bath/change her cloths she go n bath for bb . 6) when burping my bb, she hit BB's back very hard until BB's leg got reflect and keep kicking up. Etc etc ..... Don't want to recall further , jus to say she doesn't worth rm4.5k |
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May 12 2015, 03:04 PM
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577 posts Joined: Feb 2012 |
Any contact for confinement food catering? I mean instead of a confinement lady, is there one that only does confinement food delivery everyday?
And for confinement lady, do they wash the baby's clothes & diapers and mother's clothes as well or purely just baby's? |
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Jun 3 2015, 12:46 PM
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2 posts Joined: Jun 2015 |
Hi calvin78,
Can I have ur cl contact pls? TIA |
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Jun 3 2015, 02:24 PM
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2 posts Joined: Jun 2015 |
QUOTE(ladybrinth @ Nov 9 2014, 11:34 PM) Hi Apple, Hi Ladybrinth.I've called her and paid RM500 deposit already. Looking forward for confinement days. Thanks for the recommendations! May i know how is the CL which recommended by Apple? I'm thinking to hire a CL but worried to get 1 which bad service. Hope to hear from you soon. Tq. |
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Jun 27 2015, 03:36 PM
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47 posts Joined: Aug 2014 |
Any1 looking for babysitter/confinement lady feel free to PM me. I will pass you the contact of the lady.
She's a Chinese Buddhist and currently based in Cheras. Costing/packages/services are negotiable. Thank you. |
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Jun 29 2015, 12:50 PM
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1 posts Joined: Jun 2015 |
Hi,
My EDD is in Mid Dec 2015. Looking for a nice confinement lady for Bahau, Negeri Sembilan area. I don't mind a stay-in CL as long as she is honest and worth hiring. This will be my first baby and I am having trouble hiring as I am not from Bahau originally. If you do know someone, please recommend. Thank you and good luck everyone! |
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Jul 11 2015, 02:14 AM
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486 posts Joined: May 2009 |
QUOTE(santakid @ Mar 25 2015, 01:16 PM) Any recommendation for CL in PJ? Due July. Also according to what I heard live-in CL now cost around RM4k+. If non-live-in anyone knows how much that might cost? Thanks. Hi...Any luck finding ur non-live-in CL? Am looking for one too... Lived-in CL price siao Liao... Pls share, if U managed to find one... Many thanks in advance... |
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Jul 14 2015, 10:55 PM
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