congrats! and don't give up!!!
hmm... dont pat him.. its soothing for him..
I always tell my friends, baby would wake up for feeds if he is hungry. so don't worry if baby sleep through.
Tell ur hubby, at this time, baby should be swimming in your womb. So he may not be ready.
U don't stress.. if baby not feeding, u still have to pump every 2 hours to stimulate milk production. Stress will make your body produce less milk.
AND, try to wake baby and latch on around 3am.. where the prolactin hormone is the highest and greatest...
What can u do if there is nipple confusion? Drop the bottle and only offer baby your breast. Its easier said than done, i know. but once baby is looking for milk, offer your breast first.. Try spoon feeding.
Erm, most importantly, talk to hubby...
q...welcome back..i messaged you this morning...and i agree with sbux comments above..
Always try offering your breast..slowly..don't stuff it into his face..as it may scare him.
I know your hubby sure gancheong...just tell him..don't worry..if baby is hungry..will wake up and drink.