excuse me for butting in,i wanan say that i for one respects and admires a woman who can speak her mind that way i wont have to deal with "oh honey,you didnt like what we did last holiday?shat you shoulda told me!" kind of situations. Not be ass kissing ms.spunk but thats why i asked for her advice in a 'situation' of mine

good move by baronic,pinning this thread up