to me, relationships are random... everything is random shyt, some people are total douchebags and still get a girl, while some nice fellas dont. its all about chances. the only way for one to have better chances are to socialize more. pretty straight forward for me.

as for how to go for someone .. i don think i am good at that . sigh ... the girls that i like either like me for a while or completely uninterested, for girls that i am not attracted to shows interest in me ... anyway for guys out there, let me share my 2 cents. if u see a girl and u like her, GO for it. there is no shame or what. you are afraid (for some) but if u don try u will never know don wait till its too late! you may say what if u get hurt? will u rather get hurt 100 times and find the girl u like or to be hurn 0 times and be with someone you dont?