Wow thorough article. I was the insecure nice guy with my first gf some years ago when I was 19. I was most of the things you describe in your article.

She dump me after 1 year haha. It was my best buddy that told me my problems.

This post has been edited by Binyamin: Jul 21 2015, 12:27 PM

Insecurity. They girl I dated in australia at that time was my 1st gf, literally in every sense a genius in everything she do. Socially, math all sciences, music and she is drop dead gorgeous. She did at ripple degree in engineering, law and performing arts(contemporary dance) at the same time. You need an average of 80% every semester to do triple degree.

Being a competitive guy myself I felt insecure that she will leave me for a better guy. Before I dated her I didn't really felt my insecurities but when I was with her it got worst and worst and worst to the point I felt suicidal. She finally said she had enough of being restrained by me and the fights we had. She left. I learned my lessons and moved on. Tough one because she did the same engineering course as me and I had to see her almost everyday for the next 3 years. Haha

This post has been edited by Binyamin: Aug 2 2015, 12:08 PM