Alright I know this has been asked a gazillion times but here I go again with a twist.

1) You met a girl that has a bf.
2) You know you can't touch her and you tell yourself that you shouldn't.
3) However, most of the time, you end up spending time with her alone and you 2 get to enjoy the times in a very simple way.
4) You keep telling yourself not to do so but at the end still fated to be with her.
5) The girl doesn't go out with guys alone and already openly declared it but you end up getting invited to go out with her.

Would you just go and get this girl?

But then again, from the scenario, it seems that the other hand is clapping as well. I know you guys will come out with quotes like:

"Why can't you choose girls that are single?"
"Why must you destroy the happiness of a couple?"

But then again, I would say in reality that 9 out of 10 men in this world, if they were faced in such a situation, they'd go straight and spanar. Many men (including my friends) say "Happiness is something you fight your way for. If you don't struggle for the said happiness, you will lose it." Although at first I was at a disagreement on this but it seemed that the above scenario that I have encountered, opened me up to the fact that maybe Fate and God wants me to pursue my own happiness in a 'spanaring' way. Nobody knows.

However, if the girl above really did have feelings on me (of course she did at that time if I explained further), then was I the only one at wrong? Don't tell me if I didn't take care of her needs and care for her, it be better and she won't fall for me?

If you guys know the full story, you'd say I be right to spanar because the fact that SHE LIKED ME. But then again, maybe it's too late now.