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TSKampung2005
post Sep 11 2010, 08:49 PM

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QUOTE(IluvProton @ Sep 11 2010, 08:47 PM)
now 45k, perhaps 6 years later around 60-75k ?  hmm.gif
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Ah, i must take inflation into account.
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post Sep 11 2010, 08:50 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Sep 11 2010, 03:49 PM)
Ah, i must take inflation into account.
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should look into investment for now on.

so will make your 45k cost till 65k hmm.gif
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i bet even at sabah next time also need rm 1k one table ..............
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post Sep 11 2010, 08:51 PM

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QUOTE(IluvProton @ Sep 11 2010, 09:49 PM)
cincai invite anyone. coz min angpau is 100 ringgit nowaday

100 x 400 = 40k  drool.gif 

40,000 - 10,000 = 30k untung  brows.gif
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people who have no time, people who don't really like you, people who don't have money
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post Sep 11 2010, 08:52 PM

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Just be careful, just watch tv3, got folk went bankrupt Cox overspend on wedding!
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post Sep 11 2010, 08:53 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Sep 11 2010, 08:49 PM)
u got money buy house meh?
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PJ house is expensive hmm.gif

QUOTE(IluvProton @ Sep 11 2010, 08:50 PM)
should look into investment for now on.

so will make your 45k cost till 65k  hmm.gif
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Ah, invest smile.gif
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QUOTE(singdreams @ Sep 11 2010, 03:51 PM)
Bos, some peoples won't come due to some reason and that's loss

people who have no time, people who don't really like you, people who don't have money
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I shall invite whole lowyat.net member brows.gif


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post Sep 11 2010, 09:05 PM

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can i come if all the lyn is going/invited ?? i pay RM200.. there is some1 i want to punch him on the face...
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:05 PM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Sep 11 2010, 08:53 PM)
PJ house is expensive  hmm.gif
Ah, invest  smile.gif
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45K for wedding is just the tip of the iceberg.

You have to factor in on $$$:

1) House

2) insurance

3) car (2 cars)

4) kids (food, diapers, medical fees, pregnancy costs, education etc)

5) household expenses.

6) Nursery/caretaker

and manyak lagi

why just focus on the wedding ceremony??? doh.gif

Be more realistic. if your salary isn't at least 5 figure, then you need to depend on wife income to combine and make things work.
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:07 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Sep 11 2010, 09:05 PM)
45K for wedding is just the tip of the iceberg.

You have to factor in on $$$:

1) House

2) insurance

3) car (2 cars)

4) kids (food, diapers, medical fees, pregnancy costs, education etc)

5) household expenses.

6) Nursery/caretaker

and manyak lagi

why just focus on the wedding ceremony???  doh.gif 

Be more realistic. if your salary isn't at least 5 figure, then you need to depend on wife income to combine and make things work.
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The benchmark that i use for financial planning in future would be "household income".

You are right that there are more important things to consider, namely house, insurance, and future education.
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in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! " icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif icon_idea.gif

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k doh.gif

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill

This post has been edited by vapeace: Sep 11 2010, 09:08 PM
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:09 PM

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QUOTE(likimikuku @ Sep 11 2010, 04:05 PM)
can i come if all the lyn is going/invited ?? i pay RM200.. there is some1 i want to punch him on the face...
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can, as long as you pay 200 ringgit

QUOTE(vapeace @ Sep 11 2010, 04:07 PM)
in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! " icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k doh.gif

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill
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u sound like so experience
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QUOTE(vapeace @ Sep 11 2010, 10:07 PM)
in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! " icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k doh.gif

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill
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nice
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i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount!


can give less angpow to new papa
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:12 PM

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QUOTE(singdreams @ Sep 11 2010, 04:11 PM)
nice

can give less angpow to new papa
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no, ask papa gip marney back somemore
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Sep 11 2010, 09:07 PM)
The benchmark that i use for financial planning in future would be "household income".

You are right that there are more important things to consider, namely house, insurance, and future education.
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many couples made mistake by using credit cards to finance their wedding ceremony, from purchase of weddng package/photography to the dinner itself, end up starting a family already in DEBT..

financial issues are the #1 cause of marital disputes. Husband and wife would have stress at work to bring food to the table, and stress when kids become sick etc, and need to travel early to send kid to nursery and come back early to collect the kid back, etc etc.

Thats why chinese marry late, and only at most 2 kids. And the sort of stress and time spend on work, can end up causing dysfunction to the family.

So u need to plan well, so that you dont waste time on money, but rather to spend time on family and kids and wife without needing to worry about money. If you're young, its time to start now.

A house or apartment unit costs at least 150K to 200K. Monthly installments of 1K, downpayment 10%. 30year loan. If you dont have much debt, and can afford, do buy now, and rent out first. Well, thats just one la. And figure how long it will take u to actually get that money to buy one unit/home. EPF account 2 can be used.
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:13 PM

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QUOTE(vapeace @ Sep 11 2010, 09:07 PM)
in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! " icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k doh.gif

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill
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selling daughter??? rclxub.gif doh.gif rclxub.gif
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post Sep 11 2010, 09:14 PM


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QUOTE(vapeace @ Sep 11 2010, 09:07 PM)
in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! " icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif  icon_idea.gif

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k doh.gif

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill
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notworthy.gif notworthy.gif i think next time need around 200k... doh.gif , hope uk economy going well vmad.gif vmad.gif
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Sep 11 2010, 04:12 PM)
many couples made mistake by using credit cards to finance their wedding ceremony, from purchase of weddng package/photography to the dinner itself, end up starting a family already in DEBT..

financial issues are the #1 cause of marital disputes. Husband and wife would have stress at work to bring food to the table, and stress when kids become sick etc, and need to travel early to send kid to nursery and come back early to collect the kid back, etc etc.

Thats why chinese marry late, and only at most 2 kids. And the sort of stress and time spend on work, can end up causing dysfunction to the family.

So u need to plan well, so that you dont waste time on money, but rather to spend time on family and kids and wife without needing to worry about money. If you're young, its time to start now.

A house or apartment unit costs at least 150K to 200K. Monthly installments of 1K, downpayment 10%. 30year loan. If you dont have much debt, and can afford, do buy now, and rent out first. Well, thats just one la. And figure how long it will take u to actually get that money to buy one unit/home. EPF account 2 can be used.
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u forgot melei can apply for marriage fund from XXXXXX brows.gif
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QUOTE(IluvProton @ Sep 11 2010, 10:09 PM)
can, as long as you pay 200 ringgit
u sound like so experience
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rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif rolleyes.gif

in kl u need min of RM100K as said

KL 8 course is overkill, RM800 pertable, min i can find.. and if your waifu is from KL, the parent will charge you like water.. RM25K for her doh.gif
therefore choose kampung girl as they are cheap sweat.gif sweat.gif sweat.gif

but kl ang pow they give bigger, but in end u still have to cover at least 50-70% of the total cost for both man and wife side dinner. Bachelor part you also have to pay for catering Rm8k or so i think.

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QUOTE(vapeace @ Sep 11 2010, 04:15 PM)
rolleyes.gif  rolleyes.gif  rolleyes.gif

in kl u need min of RM100K as said

KL 8 course is overkill, RM800 pertable, min i can find.. and if your waifu is from KL, the parent will charge you like water.. RM25K for her doh.gif
therefore choose kampung girl as they are cheap  sweat.gif  sweat.gif  sweat.gif

but kl ang pow they give bigger, but in end u still have to cover at least 50-70% of the total cost for both man and wife side dinner. Bachelor part you also have to pay for catering Rm8k or so i think.
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teh 8k bachelor parties include the 'services' ? brows.gif

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