u got money buy house meh?

45K for wedding is just the tip of the iceberg.

You have to factor in on $$$:

1) House

2) insurance

3) car (2 cars)

4) kids (food, diapers, medical fees, pregnancy costs, education etc)

5) household expenses.

6) Nursery/caretaker

and manyak lagi

why just focus on the wedding ceremony???

Be more realistic. if your salary isn't at least 5 figure, then you need to depend on wife income to combine and make things work.

many couples made mistake by using credit cards to finance their wedding ceremony, from purchase of weddng package/photography to the dinner itself, end up starting a family already in DEBT..

financial issues are the #1 cause of marital disputes. Husband and wife would have stress at work to bring food to the table, and stress when kids become sick etc, and need to travel early to send kid to nursery and come back early to collect the kid back, etc etc.

Thats why chinese marry late, and only at most 2 kids. And the sort of stress and time spend on work, can end up causing dysfunction to the family.

So u need to plan well, so that you dont waste time on money, but rather to spend time on family and kids and wife without needing to worry about money. If you're young, its time to start now.

A house or apartment unit costs at least 150K to 200K. Monthly installments of 1K, downpayment 10%. 30year loan. If you dont have much debt, and can afford, do buy now, and rent out first. Well, thats just one la. And figure how long it will take u to actually get that money to buy one unit/home. EPF account 2 can be used.

malays are worse

no money, no high paying job, naik moto, but can marry and breed like rabbits.

quantity, no quality. all grow up become rempits.

dont compare china la

it comes down to u and yr wife. wedding dinner can be humble and simple. spend more on honeymoon also can.

10 tables good liao. unless your dad or dad in law want to show off la. then better buy prostitute.

PRC girls only cost RM150 per cum

cheap.

LEI YENG SAI LO....so kaya..

go vegetarian. say is religious stuff.
no argument then

COME!!! WE GO CHEONG!!!!