in melaka, u still can get RM500 to RM1k per-table for 8 course depend where you want

but canot order exact table, let say u 50 table, must spare at least 2 table more
because, there always cinapet, invite two, but bring bapa, nenek, anak, auntie uncle datang. totaly cost at melaka can RM80K is good enough,
50- 70% return for your money through any pow unless, beli waifu mahal..

if that the case, tell the father, "i already sleep with your daughter, so she tak laku anymore, give me discount! "

my frend kahwin have to pay rm8888 (<- very cheap already) for his wife, another have to pay rm18k

honeymoon at bali is good, because it a nice place to "play with your new wimmin" plus u can see ang moh naked on beach.. double kill

This post has been edited by vapeace: Sep 11 2010, 09:08 PM

in kl u need min of RM100K as said

KL 8 course is overkill, RM800 pertable, min i can find.. and if your waifu is from KL, the parent will charge you like water.. RM25K for her
therefore choose kampung girl as they are cheap

but kl ang pow they give bigger, but in end u still have to cover at least 50-70% of the total cost for both man and wife side dinner. Bachelor part you also have to pay for catering Rm8k or so i think.

tell him again "tak nak kasi discount, i sleep with your daughter more !"

u will be amazed on how they charge your daughter.. if u say work manager, engineer, lawyer. lagi they charge
businessman worse
so if want cheap, tell u work as teacher, and if u have bmw, hide it and use myvi drive to your future in-law house to give impression you are poor

that one is usually frend will sponsor you.. go for a "final bachelor night "
last time we bring our fren go gehlang, RM8K for the food only and he pay.. the wimin we sponsor pay for the soon to marry man,
we enjoy our self at durian stall, waiting for him to finish his "business"

wimmin we dunno, mayb they go to a gay bar or watsoever.. it a rule, we dont tell what we do on our last bachelor night

u wnat more, u pay more !
should be lucky malaysia standard is 8, imagine if is 16


and i not married, i usually kepoh, help out with planing so i know what future i can expect to see
so i know roughly the cost

a sign, marriage is coming

want break up, now is the last time liao

depend your frend wat bawa u or not

if kiamsiap, go bar hook girl... we sponsor condom

not really...

let see..if your wife relative at perak, your wedding dinner at KL.. bare in mind u have to sponsor bus for them to come and a place to stay for the night
your budget sure kaboom

but if both at same place, then it save not really much also, only thing it save is convenience
one dinner, finish all
at night, play with your wife

save some, later aftter wedding, u must do with your new waifu

u dont wnat your 1st time as husband and wife, u shooting blank

it all about how you see it those ang pow giving

for me i see it as a blessing for the people who come
in fact, when i see ppl who insisting reject receiving ang pow, is rather rude
when ppl give you their blessing, accept it although it just for show
the money you can later decide what to do with it, insert in budget or watsoever
i have seen 0sen ang pow to empty check ( dunno which rich man give empty check) ang pow

in fact melaka and penang, many still give ang pow although how many time u tell them not to !
i from a traditional family with baba root, most of my relative is the same

what normally we did was we take 10 table for our self (friends) and the remaining table is for father and mother guest list, who they want invite is their business. as long not more than the table we allocated for them
No matter how my cousin insist he will not take ang pow, his father pressure him to take it when ppl give accept it, nvr give never mind
it not about status or what so ever, it just a tradition what ever ppl give, we accept it