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Group LYN Buddhism Retreat - SERIOUS TALK, No trolling please
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zstan
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Aug 19 2010, 03:10 PM
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QUOTE(Joey-kun @ Aug 19 2010, 02:56 PM) thats why buddhists shouldnt keep insisting they're the best, the most advanced, the most peaceful...blah blah... just explain and practice and show via example. which buddhist told u that?
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Aug 19 2010, 03:33 PM
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QUOTE(PVCpipe @ Aug 19 2010, 03:12 PM) so, if someone spent time to gather wealth n money, his not good buddhist rite? karma will strike rite? coz one must not attach to desire rite? gathering wealth n money through the proper ways is not wrong la. one must not attach to desire if you are a monk(but unfortunately most modern monks still have their own personal desires) or u really really really wanna strive to become the next arahant/Buddha. for a lay Buddhist, its perfectly alright to have desires.
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Aug 19 2010, 04:02 PM
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QUOTE(KuzumiTaiga @ Aug 19 2010, 04:00 PM) Christian Buddhists are everywhere throughout the world. (Yes, i didn't mistype, CHRISTIAN BUDDHIST) lol I'm Agnostic. yes. some christians from phillipines practice buddhism as well.
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Aug 19 2010, 04:46 PM
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QUOTE(HangPC2 @ Aug 19 2010, 04:38 PM) what dat?
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Aug 20 2010, 10:24 AM
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QUOTE(Ahsin1987 @ Aug 20 2010, 10:23 AM) Buddhist sooooo deep , i don't understand a thing what u guys talking about  i summarise Buddhism for you: do not harm others, and do not harm yourself.
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Aug 20 2010, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 10:46 AM) Lol okayyy Anyone of you actually recite any mantras? I used to recite Heart Sutra when I'm having exams  , Great Compassion Mantra in NS. i only do heart sutra and metta sutra.  metta sutra is reaaally soothing.
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Aug 20 2010, 11:24 AM
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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 20 2010, 11:14 AM) Graduated and working already lor.  But will need to use this soon I guess  Thanks bro. *edit: BTW, do you need to recite the English texts as well? Metta sutra? Hmm gotta look around if u wan the sutra i can send u through msn
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Aug 20 2010, 02:22 PM
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QUOTE(dragynraken @ Aug 20 2010, 12:30 PM) Ban chezzball 1st. Top corrupter. Why? 1. No respect. 2. Fanatic christian fight in buddhist thread as just like racist to japanese a topic she create. 3. Make own question self answering but wrongly and will miss guide buddhist. 4. Impatient, simply show off anger. 5. Never had self experience before but answer thing from TV she watch. 6. High IQ but no EQ, four sure completely nobody like such people if no EQ. 7. Forcing people to answer. 8. Who she think she is? 9. Want to learn, also want to disbelieve and put her christianity hammer in, how to learn? 10. Cannot cooperate. If I'm the paster I will kick you out of the church as opposite if you wanna bring you buddhist hammer in. If people already talk about you then you should talk nicely. As for your 1st post you already slam your hammer in and we still reply you. Nevermind la low EQ will not understand others feeling.PS: You're mad chezzball is a girl or guy?
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Aug 23 2010, 10:27 AM
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Aug 21 2010, 10:39 AM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « for samatha meditation yea, got about 40 taught by the Buddha.
Not all of these meditations are suitable for everyone. It depends on your temperaments (past karma, tendencies, affinity, etc).
However, there are universal meditation such as MEtta (loving-kindness). This one is suitable for all types of temperaments, because deep inside all of us, there is a lot of hatred in our subconscious.
The effect of meditation is not something like a one-time fix.. but gradual. It has to be applied in daily life too. Meditation serves as some positive reinforcement into the subconscious - everyday we tell ourselves to be loving-kindness to all being, slowly slowly over years, over decades, you find your level of hatred reduces.....
For example, playing video games like dOta or Wow... They look harmless.. but if the individuals play those games, they got angry when TMNET down , or they got killed in Dota by their friends, they got angry..... on daily basis. slowly, day by day , that person gets angry for about 10 mins everyday.... over the years... he finds himself become a very hostile person in real life... easily get irritated, angry, etc.
I am talking from real experience.
So this mental conditiioning is very gradual... if we want to become a good person , we need to do it daily, slowly... everyday throw away some bad habits.. over time, over years, over decades, we will succeed.
By the time of death, we will be a very happy person and calm person. At that time, our 'habitual kamma' is that of a person with very much reduced hatred/anger.. and this kamma will help to help us avoid those destinies associated with these hatred based kamma --> hells, demons who fight each other, animals.....
so i hope this helps you to get a brief idea on meditation.
No need to look very far or greedy... some people meditate they want to attain Jhanas (their sole intention), but when they cannot attain it (not realizing that practice of dhamma comes altogether with Good morality and dana too).. they got pissed with buddhism and dismiss it as 'false' I met these types of people. Motivated by greed and hatred they approach buddhism.
We shouldn't go that direction.  this is so true la. now i am always observing my temperament during dota sessions.
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Aug 24 2010, 09:53 AM
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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 24 2010, 08:47 AM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Hey thanks for sharing this sounds simple enough to try So by right if one would have done it correctly will experience euphoria? The best I did was feeling the blood rush all over the back of my brain lol. edit - spoilered technically u will experience an impermenant state of nirvana.  Added on August 24, 2010, 9:58 amspeaking of karma, where does fate fall into? or specifically, 缘。 This post has been edited by zstan: Aug 24 2010, 09:58 AM
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Aug 24 2010, 10:32 AM
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QUOTE(eXPeri3nc3 @ Aug 24 2010, 10:21 AM) Hmm. From what I remember, 1 Meng (Life) 2 Wan (Destiny) 3 Feng Shui 4 Hang Xin Jik Dak (do good deeds) 5 Duk Shu (Education) I guess Destiny comes before Karma? what is this? why suddenly got feng shui one?  so destiny is not karma?
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Aug 24 2010, 11:31 AM
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QUOTE(bajie @ Aug 24 2010, 10:50 AM) Long winded thread and so many misdirected buddhists. If you're a true buddhist you should know. Life = Suffering. Since life = suffering and every action brings you good/bad karma.. You should not have children because you bring a life/soul to suffer. That is bad karma, so you never get out of the attachment cycle because you're attached to love and afraid of loneliness when old/dying. True spiritual people should not have children. The flesh is a trap for the soul and corrupts them, causing them to be reincarnated again and again due to addiction to matter stimuli. Want to escape this cycle of rebirths/reincarnation ? Stop procreating and learn to face your fears of dying by yourself. yes please go and dai now and end your sufferings.
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Aug 28 2010, 03:24 PM
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bump
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Sep 2 2010, 10:24 AM
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Sep 1 2010, 11:14 AM) yoyoyo
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Sep 2 2010, 05:01 PM
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hihi
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Sep 8 2010, 09:55 AM
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QUOTE(randyhow @ Sep 3 2010, 10:14 PM) Xuanzang, sifu of Sun Wukong from Journey to the west.. the sifu exists...but the monkey does not..
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Sep 10 2010, 09:09 PM
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QUOTE(Maxieos @ Sep 10 2010, 01:03 PM) If we don't know fate , fate is actually exist If we know fate , we can overcome fate or will not exist Hanuman does exists yeah the monk who went to india to get the buddhist scriptures exist
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Sep 12 2010, 07:54 PM
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i wonder how many good karma brought over from my past life has left... i've been pretty 'good luck' on a few occasions...notably life threatening ones..including not seeing the incoming cars properly before making a turn...thankfully that time the opposing car was coming slow..
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Sep 13 2010, 12:25 PM
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QUOTE(soul2soul @ Sep 13 2010, 09:54 AM) Should be more careful next time hor. This kamma works in very complicated ways. Some destructive kamma can kill you no matter how you want to avoid also you cannot. Some are just killing kamma not so strong but can exert itself when conditions are right. So as far as possible, exercise mindfulness and do our best to be careful on the road. But if really got destructive kamma , then no choice. Always reflect on death, that will give you a sense of urgency to practice the dhamma. We are never sure of what kamma will mature tomorrow, or until when we will have chance to practice the dhamma again. Human life is very short, but it is also the best avenue to get lots of merits. its not only driving... sometimes crossing the road.. most recent case was i drive my car until reach home with very very VERY little fuel..the next day i start car....car cannot move because fuel tank totally empty.. luckily the car did not die while i was on the road..so just wondering...how many good merits that i had obtained had been exhausted in these situations, or it does not work this way.
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Sep 20 2010, 01:46 PM
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anybody attending world buddhist conference this weekend?
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