I know how you feel. Like want to kill those arrogant handsome guys all the way. My advice, no matter how much your sadness is, clearly she prefer those b@stards good lookin dude rather than fuglies like us. No matter what words of wisdom you may heard  from those Yoda wannabes, good looking dudes always caught females attention. So, don't linger in your sadness for someone who don't want your affection. Channel it towards anger, and vengeance. Only then you'll regain your heart strength.

p/s: seriously you can become my first online disciple if you want, and join my offline group of disciples.