some ppl can..some ppl cannot..as for myself..cannot means cannot..surely there will be this attraction thingy going on...if its not love.then its crush...

Actually i don't see the problem guys being good friends with girls. I personally have a good friend who is a girl too. Just that one thing that we all have to bare in mind if our respect for the other party.

hahaha no laaaa,,, my best friend is d most handsome guy in college, and im definitely not ugly we just too close (also with both family) so dont wanna spoil this relationship anyway his not my type haha:blush:

confirm can...all my best friends are always the girls....
in my opinion,it is better for us to sharing our things with girls..
because they are more mature and sometime they also can give us the useful  solution...

No doubt is not all gals r mature.....BUT majority of gal r mature than a guy who is same age with her...

For me it's a big NO.. bcoz tis kind of incident juz happened on me.. both of them hv developed "feeling" to each other..

mayb guy n girl can only b good friend when both of them r stil single n available.. if either one is attached, then no way..

To me... it's possible... Why not? However, u have to be open la... Don think too much... Last time when i was quite young... actually small, there is this boy... I think he broke his arm or sumthing... So i was being helpful as in always helping him do stuff... then the gossip started... And he was so shy that he ignored me for a year... Wow... and i felt so bad about it... People... With there stupid gossips... But now... we are very close friends again... At least after he knew how to think with a mature mind... So the point here is don ever think too much... Who cares what other people say... Phew... we're still good friends... Go lunching together... Even though there's another gossip going on... but i think our friendship shall sustain if we are clever enough to think with a sensible mind... Well... We're all humans... Humans should care for each other... Humans should learn how to love each other (the love here doesn't necessarily mean the boy girl relationship love) So... of course boys and girl can be good friends.

what?? married and available???

anyway, if u r attached n u know well ur limitation then of coz u can hv a opposite sex as a good fren.. n so do ur good fren is.. n make sure ur partner is well-known of ur friendship n no hidden things n dun do anything tat can make ur partner feel suspicious..

i haf good guy frens! haha.nth happened =)