Hihi.

My indian friend wedding is coming next weekend and she did it in a college hall. Wonder what should we give or how much to give is appropriate as this will be first time attending an indian wedding.

Any Indian here or anyone with experience kind to share. Thanks alot.

muruku

yea...I'm going to attend my lecturer's wedding dinner too
present or?

Serious talk la not for spamming. If you bring muruku to ur fren wedding . what you say.

Same here.. Dunno what present to give or give ang pau better and how much is enough RM50 per person ?

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Ermm research shows that money is still the best thing to give newly wed couples followed by holiday retreat vouchers.

just as usual...
angpow....
rm10 for one person.

Chinaware. Yes I'm srs.

Hamper.

CNY season coming, can easily buy a hamper at Tesco.

OR

Kitchen appliances, furnitures.

I never face this problem before. Am I racist?

moneh

hamper? good idea
but what should be inside that hamper? foods?

i am indian... for my parents wedding people give silverware but now the silverware are sleeping in the store room...zzzzz

Best give money straight away... easier for you and them....

muruku n vadei

but seriously, angpow with money inside will be moar appreciated

give saree la

hamper ?

This post has been edited by beastiex: Jan 10 2010, 06:58 PM

So chinese way is the best by giving ang pao.

Normally how much to give ??

as much as you want

ahha...keep it keep it
thanks for it

aiyo.... nowadays a typical chinese wedding dinner i attend will pay RM100 Ang pao per person lo. Dun be so kedekut la. anyway its ur fren rite? just give RM100 or amount that suite ur budget lo. bear in mind that you still have to see her after the wedding and how will you think if ur fren attend ur wedding giving RM10 as ang pao. u sure "du lan" also right?

u can bring gifts, but sometimes huge gifts are a bit awkward when u carry them around in the wedding.. u may be among the few who bring gifts.. and u dont want a coincidence of presenting the same thing another person presents.. better 2 give ang pao la, at least the couples can decide on what they would like to get..

Usually they will give money

just giv angpow..

RM50 should be enough..



maybe can give kamasutra book to the bride..



This post has been edited by compucraz: Jan 10 2010, 09:56 PM

Ang Pow enough lo... Indians usually give Denominations + 1
eg.. RM 51 , 101 , 201 , 1001 ,.. watever as long it ends with 1...

Present, maybe a honeymoon vacasyun package

Indian weddings not more to ang pows. They are more to gifts. Just present some gifts like rice cooker or toaster or pirex set or stuff like that. They are newly married, they might move to new house, so they might need those stuffs

Or if ure too confused, just use a nice envelope, put their name on it and congrats them, put inside at least 50 or 100. Dont give lower than that, its a wedding, not birthday. When u go see them and shake hand, give them that time. End of story. Matter solved.

This post has been edited by deejay_krish: Jan 10 2010, 10:25 PM

I'm an Indian as well. If you are so rapat with him/her, you can give RM101. Or else, give RM51.

I usually paid 100 per person for chinese wedding
today attent an indian wedding, give 300 for 3 person
just got Indian rice
feel damn not worth

err curry powder ? ^^