aiyo.... nowadays a typical chinese wedding dinner i attend will pay RM100 Ang pao per person lo. Dun be so kedekut la. anyway its ur fren rite? just give RM100 or amount that suite ur budget lo. bear in mind that you still have to see her after the wedding and how will you think if ur fren attend ur wedding giving RM10 as ang pao. u sure "du lan" also right?