QUOTE(hazwan @ May 10 2010, 05:43 PM)
Some of my chinese friends got a 'f**king asian' and one of them had eggs thrown at her. Talk about being racist.
Would you prefer being denied education, loans, welfare, scholarships, housing, investment opportunities, and a lot more, simply because one is "Asian"?
One thing that I find most perplexing is that people seem to come to Australia thinking it is the land of milk and honey, and everything is a wonderful life. While I would admit it is not a bad country, it is like any country. In any society you will have crime. You will have idiots. You will have people who do not accept that there are people other than your own racial group. You will have corruption. You will have people trying to get away from their crimes.
The difference is that at least in Australia, there is an outlet for recourse in the law. Now I know this will probably sound alien to a group of people who see the law as something to work around, not work with, but bear with me. My personal interactions with Queensland police have been reasonably positive.
This is a society where you exercise your rights. Have a noisy neighbour at 1am on a Saturday night? You call the police, not grit your teeth, complain on a forum, and think what a A-hole Australians are. If you are the victim of racist attacks in university, you report it to security. Go as far as the university ombudsman if needed. Sexually harassed? Report it to security and equity. Make a police report. You have no idea how many university students QUT disciplines just because of male chauvinism.
That I think is the problem with most Malaysians, and Asians in general. They don't stand up for themselves. The grit their teeth, keep silent, and retreat into their own communities (personally I would say ghettos, but Kevin Andrews found out the hard way it is not politically popular to make statements like that). Understanding is a 2 way street. If you don't communicate, no one will ever understand you. In many cases they stay silent too long, and only come to seek help when its too late.
Having participated in my university's International Student Services, its amazing the lengths how international students will keep quiet, or stay ignorant of their problems, until it is too late to help them, be it visa expiry, tenancy issues (yes, people do actually get thrown out of share houses for being "too Asian"), discrimination in general, the lot. And they think the ISS is some kind of magic bullet that can save them. I try my best in the cases that I see, but I am not God, and "he who seeks equity must do equity".
We all want our "Australian experience" to be a positive one. But in the receiving, there needs to be some giving. Understanding and respect is a 2 way street. Its all fine and dandy asking for help when it is needed, but when the helper needs help, it would be nice if you returned the favor, and not just help the student association you are affiliated with.
Finally, having been in a foreign land where I have no right of residency for close to 5 years, I have yet to personally have issues while walking on the streets. This is not to say I have not been yelled by drunks, but it would be fallacious to think that Malaysian drunks are any more docile.
There are 2 ways to interpreting the rough treatment one may get on the streets: a)Australia is a racist country (ironic considering you cant get much more racist that Malaysia), or b) you're intentionally seeking out questionable characters in society.
And despite having to put up with the people who come through ISS, its still painful to read the English here.
QUOTE(Plant @ May 10 2010, 01:01 AM)
Weird, u guys face wrong is it? I have been approached by heaps of drunken aussie and they never hit me, i even greet them and sing a song with them. I guess you
guys are not socialist people :P
The only one i should watch out are the one who wear hood and looks suspicious.. faster run to crowned area. :w
Also the aggressive one who is sober and wear like gangster. =.='
People can be quite sociable. It doesn't make them a socialist. ^_^''
This post has been edited by haya: May 11 2010, 10:47 AM