Is it a sin to be the only child in family ( Anak Tunggal ) ?

The problem start when I was 7 years old ( standard 1 ) till now 21 years old ( working )

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Is it a sin to be the only child in family ( Anak Tunggal ) ?

The problem start when I was 7 years old ( standard 1 ) till now 21 years old ( working )

Primary school - Tend to get bully by some student because of my status. Things only get better when I'm in Standard 5 & 6 due of my physical (tall and a bit muscle) and also I be friend with some "bad student".

Secondary school - I want but can't lie about my status because lots of my neighbour are in same school. No bully this time but student look down on me just because of that. Always call me pampered child ( anak manja ). As usual things get better after 2-3 years when they really know me ( not pampered ).

I go to other school ( my father transfer ) when at Form 3. Things ok there because I lie to all my friend about my status. No one there ever think I'm the only child because they judge my by my attitude without knowing my status.

College - I lie about my status at the first place but they know it later ( cannot avoid ). And as usual they start to change the way they look at me. They accuse my parents did all my stuff for me. From iron my shirt to wash my underwear ( which is not true ). I can get " all things in the world " etc.

Things going well when I having Industrial Training for 6 month at this company. I taught things different between study time and work time, they really didn't care who you are. What matters is what you are.

Work - I get caught at the first place when the interviewer ask my about my family status. I really hope she won't tell anyone in the office, but she did it. I hope working environment different from school / college but it's not any better. One of my college is "mulut celupar". She is the oldest in family so she kind of "hated" any youngest child in family ( never mention only child ). Guess what ? same old same old

Things only gone wrong when people around me know I'm the only child in family. My life is consider stable right now but my friend will sometimes bring up the issue ( likes it's even an issue )
Is it a sin to be the only child in family ?

hi TS...

i also the only child..i faced same problem with u since primary and secondary school..
i lied bout my status with my friends but kantoi later cuz one of my teacher in secondary school was my uncle..
start from dat day they tease me..i feel suffer waiting to finish form 5..

but now in college ppl start to amazed and respect me..
if i tell them im anak tunggal they will say "wah u so lucky..can get whatever u wish"
no more "ceh anak manja"
i can even get close to chick easily if i said im only child

what is important is u need to be confident to tell the truth..
if u tell them with confident voice and confident face they scare to make fun of u..
dont let they drop u anymore..
if they ask u just say "yes im the only child..so whats wrong?"