Is it a sin to be the only child in family ( Anak Tunggal ) ?

The problem start when I was 7 years old ( standard 1 ) till now 21 years old ( working )

Primary school - Tend to get bully by some student because of my status. Things only get better when I'm in Standard 5 & 6 due of my physical (tall and a bit muscle) and also I be friend with some "bad student".

Secondary school - I want but can't lie about my status because lots of my neighbour are in same school. No bully this time but student look down on me just because of that. Always call me pampered child ( anak manja ). As usual things get better after 2-3 years when they really know me ( not pampered ).

I go to other school ( my father transfer ) when at Form 3. Things ok there because I lie to all my friend about my status. No one there ever think I'm the only child because they judge my by my attitude without knowing my status.

College - I lie about my status at the first place but they know it later ( cannot avoid ). And as usual they start to change the way they look at me. They accuse my parents did all my stuff for me. From iron my shirt to wash my underwear ( which is not true ). I can get " all things in the world " etc.

Things going well when I having Industrial Training for 6 month at this company. I taught things different between study time and work time, they really didn't care who you are. What matters is what you are.

Work - I get caught at the first place when the interviewer ask my about my family status. I tell her I am a only son and she directly say "Anak Manja la you ni" ( She only know me for less than 5 minutes ). I really hope she won't tell anyone in the office, but she did it. I hope working environment different from school / college but it's not any better. One of my college is "mulut celupar". She is the oldest in family so she kind of "hated" any youngest child in family ( never mention only child ). Guess what ? same old same old

Things only gone wrong when people around me know I'm the only child in family. My life is consider stable right now but my friend will sometimes bring up the issue ( likes it's even an issue )


Is it a sin to be the only child in family ?

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Jan 20 2010, 09:36 PM

No need to be so harsh. You wouldn't know unless you experience it. People judge you before even know you. You need to work hard and show them who you really are. That's the problem

Hate ?

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Nov 5 2009, 12:30 AM

At last someone with same problem

Damn la all these people, Treat us like it was a sin to be the only child

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Nov 5 2009, 11:40 PM

Really good advise for someone that experienced it

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Nov 8 2009, 11:15 PM

No until you experienced it yourself

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Nov 8 2009, 11:15 PM

lol

You father is a boss, you must be from rich family. No wonder la bros like to hang out with you. You must be the one that buy the cigarette for them

Lucky you

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Nov 19 2009, 08:55 PM

Originnaly I post this thread at PHD section and the staff / mod there sent it here under serious talk

My friend not like you unfortunately

This post has been edited by Sifha238: Jan 20 2010, 09:48 PM