Come to think of it. Even if all 5 are fulfilled, there is a possibility that the girl is treating the guy as a very close fren. BFF perhaps?

Noobie, would like to hear your view on this?
(coz i have personally done all 5. And being a real dating newbie - trying to court a girl for my very first time, i don't know what to do, and that's why i'm here)
[4th criteria - erm up to... play with her hair, sit so close in the cinema that my forehead touches her forehead when we talk]

This post has been edited by hecyro: Sep 16 2009, 02:30 AM

does she allow you to hold her hand?

She's obviously comfortable being physically intimate with you. Why haven't you closed the deal?

Ask her out again, make it a proper romantic date - expensive restaurant, candlelit dinner, wine, etc. - then when you're sending her home, grab her and give her a big fat kiss!

can do french kiss ar?

Actually, if it's a first kiss I would not recommend sticking your tongue down her throat.

...then again, girls have kissed me for the first time and stuck their tongues down my throat. So, hard to say leh.

Yea i have the feeling of closing the deal soon, though just some time ago, i was really wondering hard whether im in the friend zone.

hahaha if u remember me, i was the one who sought for advice back in june. things are getting better now.

(fyi, we are around 19-20 yrs old), do i still follow the advice u just gave - romantic dinner? or try to hold hands wit her first. lol i can leech this thread kan? if not, i can open a new thread =)

this formula

younger=more romantic.

imagine going to pulau redang beach alone with the girl u like at the age of 14

Like this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8cGKY9U46Q

"Do you want to come on a date...to a romantic dinner?"

haha. will the brain really be enough at 14 to comprehend all that?

romantic dinner works in this instance (though not my style) for even if she rejects you, the dinner itself would be an experience worth remembering, for her and for you. Keep a positive attitude. Focus on the moment, not the result.

Don't worry so much about the steps, its a GUIDE, not an absolute rule. Focus too much on the rules and you'll miss all the opportunities to strike.

Eh dude, how bout when u met a girl at a random coffee shop? She's with her friends and you just dont know how to let her know that you are interested to get to know her?

Do you use the same steps as the one you have given?

It's applicable to any girl you want to get to know.

haha make sure the girl is the one u like.. MUST NOT court a girl just of peer pressure o what.



haha really? grats then!!

btw i hope this thread got pinned la..

I think that these steps work better when it's just the two of you. If it's in public or if she might care what her friends or circle think, she may limit her reciprocity. Like suddenly everything is going well but suddenly she pulls back a few steps. I find this most potong steam.

Regarding random girls at coffee shops... noobie's guide is really only how to let a girl know you like her. If you let a girl know you like her but she doesn't even really know who you are, much less like you back, you will still fail.

So if you meet a girl in a coffee shop I suggest you just get her number or facebook or msn to interact more first.

Hey dude. You're way past the friends zone la. Its so obvious you're in her "quality guy" books.

Where got normal friends talk also foreheads touch 1. Thats almost like nose touching.. Which is almost like lip smearing... which is almost like..

anyway you get my drift ;D

ROFL!!!!

Nice one! XD

Excellent post.

I wish more guys can do this and save our ladies from miseries.

when i was standrad 3(10 yrs old), i walk with a girl i like along the beach in pulau redang.
bad breath habis liao

faster faster edit out so nobody can see this!!!

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Added on September 17, 2009, 8:18 pmSo nais. I wub too

This post has been edited by Dickson Poon: Sep 17 2009, 08:18 PM