wah brather like that means got no chances liow ar... kns... i kena into this with the gal, becos her stupiud jiu mui pass some idiot remark on me, her perception straight away change...

now have to slowly built it up again...

but making her laugh, man really got no idea man...

As long as she's still in contact with you, you still have a chance.
What's so hard?

Hey, sometimes shit happens. You said or did something wrong, or she heard something about you from someone, and now you got no chance. Best to just forget about it.

None of her friend know about me, unless she tell her friends about me, but Im assure that I didn't do anything wrong. We used to chat daily, but recently seems like kthxbye from her. Trying to forget about it, but heart struggle to do so. 

why so hard to make her laugh ar... its not in born with me lo...

Oooohhh kaaayyyy.

So this is the first time I saw this thread and reviewing the notes, seems like I didn't quite follow it.

Did step 1, then initiate conversation. No jokes, just getting to know her first. Next second she was turning pretty chatty, even telling me her past hobbies automatically without being prompted. When she had to leave,  she gave me a glance over her shoulder. All good signs for sure.

Wondering if I should just skip to step 5.

You joke and laugh with your friends, don't you? Why can't you do the same with her?

What if i have the eye contacts and she's standing close to me part but she's not laughing at my jokes or touching me?

Dude, I don't know. You pandai-pandai tengok keadaan la.

So I am not in Malaysia now , but I need advice , I fell in love with this lady which I met through her father but she has a boyfriend . So should I come clean and tell her that I am interested in her ? or your opinions because I do not know what to do now.

Safe to say, I bookmarked this thread almost a year ago. 5 months ago, I found this girl, I followed these steps. Once a week I read back this thread just to make sure I don't get sidetracked.
Now, I'm happy with the girl I'm with, the best decision I've made in my life in choosing her.
Feel like a lucky bast**d right now, but thank you OP very much, I love you

Dear sifu, what happen if you meet back your secondary school crush and got along well. Then a week or two into chatting she told you she plans to get married in 2 years. And told you she thought of how great to have children and love to be a mum?

Just dropped by to look at this thread n00b13! Glad that it did take off and to 70 pages!
Even gladder that few have found much help from it!