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5 Ways to Let a Girl Know You're Interested In Her, with none of this "confessing" nonsense
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silverhawk
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 Jul 29 2009, 02:31 PM
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Eyes on Target
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 29 2009, 02:27 PM) oh ya i did try to know him to certain extend before i confess to him. If i know he's that kind of person that i like, having those personalities that attract me, i don't mind to take the move to confess. But i know though i know his personalities and what he actually attracted you, confession doesn't give i a guarantee result that he will accept me as a gf. That's why it isn't like investment, where if you invest, you will see either short-term or long-term profit. And life is short. Why should i pull back just because i'm afraid of being rejected? The important thing is if i've taken the courage to reveal him my feeling. That's just for my view of relationship.  Yes, i agree. That's why the result of confession is not what i concern about, now. No one is saying that you have to hold back. You just go all out to win his/her heart. Confessing before doing that is expectation, confession after is reassurance. People who confess before doing anything are holding back, because they don't dare to invest their heart. So yes I agree, we should not hold back  |
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Tatsumaki
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Jul 29 2009, 02:35 PM
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Getting Started
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 02:26 PM) Luckily you had unlimited ammo cheat on  ! Debs, your approach of living each day as your last is a good one. This means should you die today, you have no regrets. I try my best to do the same, but most of the time I falter. Having said that, I believe this whole idea of confession comes later. It isn't the opener. Steps 1-5 happens, there is chemistry. Two people continue to see each other on a regular basis. Somewhere along the lines, when the environment is right, the planets are perfectly aligned and when moonlight shines down upon them, a simple statement is sufficient to wrap this whole confession thingamajig up: Take noobie's scenario and after the kiss, just say the three words. |
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silverhawk
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Jul 29 2009, 02:41 PM
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Eyes on Target
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jul 29 2009, 02:31 PM) I still do now, in lowyat.net too bad teongpeng missed, else he would have been my victime (and you too, last minute all FFK!) I didn't FFK u oso, he FFK us got la  |
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SUSspanker
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Jul 29 2009, 02:45 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 29 2009, 02:27 PM) oh ya i did try to know him to certain extend before i confess to him. If i know he's that kind of person that i like, having those personalities that attract me, i don't mind to take the move to confess. But i know though i know his personalities and what he actually attracted you, confession doesn't give i a guarantee result that he will accept me as a gf. That's why it isn't like investment, where if you invest, you will see either short-term or long-term profit. And life is short. Why should i pull back just because i'm afraid of being rejected? The important thing is if i've taken the courage to reveal him my feeling. That's just for my view of relationship. Yes, i agree. That's why the result of confession is not what i concern about, now. Your method is the "lets be friends first, then I shall see whether you are worth being attracted to" technique. Noobi3's steps is to create chemistry, something which I believe you avoid. |
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happy4ever
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Jul 29 2009, 02:48 PM
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QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 02:41 PM) I didn't FFK u oso, he FFK us got la You last minute got mum mum with yr mommy.... 
Added on July 29, 2009, 2:49 pmQUOTE(spanker @ Jul 29 2009, 02:45 PM) Your method is the "lets be friends first, then I shall see whether you are worth being attracted to" technique. Noobi3's steps is to create chemistry, something which I believe you avoid. If the chap is not worth being attracted to, so whats the point of creating chemistry? For sex boleh la  This post has been edited by happy4ever: Jul 29 2009, 02:49 PM |
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TSn00b13
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Jul 29 2009, 02:51 PM
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QUOTE(spanker @ Jul 29 2009, 02:10 PM) Dude, she doesn't want you to use the word "she", she wants you to use the word "you" when you replied to her! QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 02:15 PM) He's lost his touch, missed the signal from debbie Debbie's tried to tarp me once before. Won't be fooled again.  |
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debbieyss
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Jul 29 2009, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 02:51 PM) Debbie's tried to tarp me once before. Won't be fooled again. wahahahaha....... i almost laughed till dropped on the floor at my office no wonder recently you are being so serious in replying my posts. |
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SUSspanker
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Jul 29 2009, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jul 29 2009, 02:48 PM) If the chap is not worth being attracted to, so whats the point of creating chemistry? For sex boleh la What sillyness is this? What's the point of being attracted to someone if there's no chemistry? QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 02:51 PM) Debbie's tried to tarp me once before. Won't be fooled again. Don't worry, you're not her only victim |
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silverhawk
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Jul 29 2009, 02:59 PM
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Eyes on Target
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jul 29 2009, 02:48 PM) You last minute got mum mum with yr mommy.... Ask you for supper ma... but you din choi me  |
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debbieyss
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Jul 29 2009, 03:04 PM
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happy4ever, why you don't reply my post to you?
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~LynX~
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Jul 29 2009, 03:27 PM
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Getting Started
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 02:51 PM) Debbie's tried to tarp me once before. Won't be fooled again. Debbie.... is a tarp? Interesting.  |
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TSn00b13
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Jul 29 2009, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 29 2009, 02:57 PM) wahahahaha....... i almost laughed till dropped on the floor at my office no wonder recently you are being so serious in replying my posts. The internet is serious business.  |
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debbieyss
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Jul 29 2009, 04:48 PM
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 04:41 PM) The internet is serious business. » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « Why are you being so serious to me? |
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TSn00b13
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Jul 29 2009, 05:00 PM
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QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 29 2009, 04:48 PM) Why are you being so serious to me?  |
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debbieyss
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Jul 29 2009, 05:05 PM
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QUOTE(n00b13 @ Jul 29 2009, 05:00 PM) » Click to show Spoiler - click again to hide... « are you trying to say that i'm a cat? |
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Deimos Tel`Arin
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Jul 29 2009, 05:05 PM
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so debbieyss is a tarp and not a female as advertised in the female tag?
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KirklandLee
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Jul 29 2009, 05:09 PM
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New Member
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OMG!!!!!! Debbie is a TARP!!!!??? !! OMFG!!!!!!!
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happy4ever
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Jul 29 2009, 05:22 PM
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QUOTE(spanker @ Jul 29 2009, 02:59 PM) What sillyness is this? What's the point of being attracted to someone if there's no chemistry? Means that if the person is not what you want, why want to create chemistry with him/her? QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 29 2009, 02:59 PM) Ask you for supper ma... but you din choi me i pigi makan supper with frens lo...coz I iz sad..no dinner. QUOTE(debbieyss @ Jul 29 2009, 03:04 PM) happy4ever, why you don't reply my post to you? which post, mr debbie?  |
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whoopa
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Jul 29 2009, 05:25 PM
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is this topic derailment time?
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SUSspanker
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Jul 29 2009, 06:13 PM
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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jul 29 2009, 05:22 PM) Means that if the person is not what you want, why want to create chemistry with him/her? Fail get = you. Don't you understand what you asked can be twisted the other way? It's a not causality, it's just a different way of getting there. |
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