eye contact? waaa i can't bro cos everytime i see her face/eyes i become panic ooo i mean nervous..my heart dupdap2

*-rekaan semata-mata

Although I'm not the thread starter, I would like to answer our unker Alviks* Kong.

The buku-lima is not a test or the fool-proof must be done exactly 10000% to get the girl. It just improves your chance to be in a relationship. The best thing to do is, meet more girls and try your best to do the 1 the 2 the 3 and the 4 during the initial meeting with all the girls. Why more girls? The girl A that you had met might not like the way you talk or the girl B noticed your frequent gazes to her breast and not her face. So, get to know more girls A to Z along the way, your "the one" might be among them.

After you get to know the specific girl out of the roses well and she "should" be interested with you then proceed to 5.

Back to unker Kong, there's nothing wrong if you want to "do" the 5 with the girl downstairs, you can get to know 10 more girls downstairs. They might like you and you can consider them as the 2nd, 3rd, 4th and nth gf  your condom stock will cepat habis 

eye contact? waaa i can't bro cos everytime i see her face/eyes i become panic ooo i mean nervous..my heart dupdap2

Errmm.. I have a question.. what happen if the girl do that 5 thing 1st to me.. but I dont think she like me... because she dont reply any of my message yet ...I went out with her twice and at the first time when we go out,she the one who asking me, weather I'm free or not and invite me to join her to go out..btw.. my question is.. do this a good sign since I'm kinda interested in her.. do you think that she like me as a friend or better than that??

facepalm...  damn... typo issues more facepalm.. it a girl..

Last time I knew a girl whom did all the 5 things to me as well... But she liked me.. I dont really liked her.. In the end she hates me even till now doh.gif

Have done 4 step but the last step still fail.

The girl keep teasing me to treat her to dinner but when i ask her out she said need to bring friend along which i disagree. This should obviously shown that i targeting her. The next day she again saying that if i willing to treat her she will gladly accept my offer. The day after again i ask her on dinner she again not willing to go alone with me but the way she reject me just make me scratch my head. She reject with very soft and sweet tone that i never heard off (kinda nice to hear) claiming currently she busy with work maybe after finish the report first.

I known her for 3 years and only recently try to approach her. Is she fooling with me or just shy. Or maybe she try to reject me without hurting my feeling.

Anybody wanna help me with the problem. Is there anybody facing such situation b4.

Perhaps because its been too long until u made your move? Sometimes when some girls find u as "just a friend" ur kinda stuck there u know?

Then you just let it happen naturally. And believe me, if you've gotten this far and the girl has been showing all the signs of liking you, it will happen naturally

So that's mean no confession involved? So it just happen naturally even though I can see the sign that she likes me?

what are the signs to take note of before proceeding to do this ar?

Have done 4 step but the last step still fail.

The girl keep teasing me to treat her to dinner but when i ask her out she said need to bring friend along which i disagree. This should obviously shown that i targeting her. The next day she again saying that if i willing to treat her she will gladly accept my offer. The day after again i ask her on dinner she again not willing to go alone with me but the way she reject me just make me scratch my head. She reject with very soft and sweet tone that i never heard off (kinda nice to hear) claiming currently she busy with work maybe after finish the report first.

I known her for 3 years and only recently try to approach her. Is she fooling with me or just shy. Or maybe she try to reject me without hurting my feeling.

Anybody wanna help me with the problem. Is there anybody facing such situation b4.

The lesser the signs the riskier it gets. The higher the risk, the more exciting the return. 

ok i'm just a gambler and truth is i cant answer your question.

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Added on February 24, 2011, 4:02 pmeh wait...i figure out liau....

Dont wait for a sign from her. Rather look for the mood. The atmosphere, the situation, the energy...u know...The mood.

Or you can create it.

OR i still dont know what i'm talking about.

Give me some time goddamn it.

I kind of disagree with this. I've had best friends whom was confused by all these 'signs' their guy friends have given, and it turns out that the guy was just flirting for fun.

It's good if you want to do this to her, but don't keep her guessing/confused for too long. She'll assume you're just playing around and will ignore it because she don't want to 'perasan' or anything.

Eventually, you will have to tell her that you like her anyway.