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Cheesenium
post Jul 25 2009, 11:16 PM

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After seeing all these replies above,you can dream on,dickson,my friend.

These people just dont take anything seriously.They prefer some pointless retarded topics than something with points to debate on.

Or in another words,degrade CC into /k brainless forum.


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post Jul 26 2009, 12:06 AM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ Jul 25 2009, 11:36 PM)
CC already RIP...

I feel contented if someone really benefited from CC and improves his/her life

Unfortunately, at this juncture, we are not seeing that.
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Yeap,we wont be seeing anything improving with all the /k idiots running around.

If the mods wants to improve CC,the first step they should do is,remove CC from Kopitiam and put it as another standalone subforum on the main page,not a subforum in kopitiam.

QUOTE(Jamien @ Jul 25 2009, 11:52 PM)
Yes. I find his threads over simplified and demeaning as well as annoying. I usually like reading tips for this stuff but not his. in communication, love, bond, connection, chemistry, etc etc, 1+1 does not always equals 2. It also fills to the brim with the idea that less than beautiful or rich people cannot find a partner. Such articles should inspire people to be better, not beat them down. It should be telling about stuff we never knew and have never thought of.

So yeah, just about any thread except his.
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What Jam say is right.

Most people here just dont agree with whatever he says.

The truth hurts,but the problem is the way it is worded hurts people a lot without thinking of how people feel.Besides,those that are just his personal experience and he has not much credibility as he doesnt read any relationship related books.

He thinks he's just awesome.
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post Jul 26 2009, 12:50 AM

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QUOTE(teongpeng @ Jul 26 2009, 12:38 AM)
im not sure the problem is with the way its worded....to me his contents are flawed...

and yeah everything Jamien says i agree.  wub.gif
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The first thing that offended me is how is it worded.

The contents arent really flawed.Quite true,but too generalised.
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post Jul 26 2009, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion @ Jul 26 2009, 03:40 AM)
Cupid corner is right where it should be, alongside Jokes Heaven in Kopitiam, where the lulz rules.

If there's any changes that really need to be made, I suggest that those whatever spamming clubs thread being moved to \k\ rather than CC. I don't see it serves any purposes here other than spamming. We already have classifieds here, so whoever that have their social needs to be fulfill should go there instead or spam around in \k\'s chat thread. That'll leave threads of people seeking advice to be on top instead of spamming threads that don't serve any meaningful purpose in CC.
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Why should CC chat threads should be in /k? It's the people from /k are turning CC to another /k subforum.

Threads that are genuinely looking for advise are often being spammed with pointless comments than any constructive comments.Thanks to the /k idiots for degrading this whole place.Even threads like COBH being spammed with pointless comments from /k people while exactly a year ago,it was a sanctuary for broken heart people.People are losing confidence in CC when they are looking for advise as no one wants to help them.

Even if i have problems,i rather keep it to myself than posting a thread here that is full of "pics or GFTO","go screw her" or "show her you are rich" comments,as i know,i wont be getting anything useful out of it.

CC is dead now.It's nothing but a walking corpse as no one is getting any benefits out of it which is no different than /k where you people love being stupid all the time.Now,in COBH,people are posting posts like that,as they are losing confidence with the forum.

Besides,SC,LDR thread etc have been in /k for a short period and the regulars didnt like it at all,as you /k people just spam pointless threads or disrespect the members on the thread.Or opening *insert girl name here* fan club,as it's so funny for you all while the girls hates it when it happens.

CC regulars will never go along with all these brainless /k people.You guys want lulz,while we want at least something reasonably worth discussing to talk about. So,splitting CC to an independent subforum is the best solution,as it's impossible to monitor all the posts here.

Im pretty much done here.CC is just beyond disgusting these days which all these /k people around.
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post Jul 26 2009, 03:15 PM

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QUOTE(Gr3yL3gion @ Jul 26 2009, 03:12 PM)
lol, chill dude.
Points noted, I remember the days when cc was still a relevant subforum, but then it is always been under \k\ as far as I remember. Do correct me if I'm wrong.
CC wasn't this a few years ago, before the reemergence of teeny whiny spam club threads.
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Yes,but it's time to take it out of /k.
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post Jul 27 2009, 10:32 PM

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QUOTE(jassonvolt88 @ Jul 27 2009, 10:23 PM)
the current CC is already quite okay. if we set up more rules, it might turn this section into a dead zone because of the freedom of posting has been limited. after all, CC is one of the Kopitiam sub topic where forumers can post whatever they like as long it is not a single line posting or against the existing forum rules. But if we wan a better CC, then we should move it out from the kopitiam subtopic and place it somewhere else.
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With this kind of mentality,CC aint going anywhere as /k people just want to have fun here and cause trouble everywhere.

Chat threads are ok,as they have their own purpose.

Other than that,especially threads with serious issues,people should be there to help,advise or enlighten them.If not,be like me,dont post at all if you cant help.
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post Jul 27 2009, 10:42 PM

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QUOTE(jassonvolt88 @ Jul 27 2009, 10:37 PM)
u r right. the prob now is that the CC is placed under kopitiam.perhaps can move it to a higher lvl so that we can reduce the number of irrelevant posts from there. if no, every1 especially the newcomers will simply post anything w/o thinking twice as it is under KOPITIAM...
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Yes,thats why some of the senior members here have been saying that CC needs to be out of Kopitiam,if the staff wants CC to have it's own function.

Just put CC as a separate subforum at the lifestyle section will do.
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post Jul 27 2009, 10:57 PM

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I think RWI is a bit too serious for CC.A mixture of fun and silliness like chat threads and serious threads like "what im gonna buy for my gf? " would be better.

Just like someone say above,love and relationship isnt just about being serious,it's also about fun too.

The problem we are having here is,the fun part has gone overboard and it's interfering with the more serious nature threads.Even chat threads are also affected.
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post Jul 28 2009, 12:10 AM

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QUOTE(p3nguin @ Jul 27 2009, 11:09 PM)
Though, what constitutes as going overboard? For some people, what may seem as going overboard may not be to others. For example, if someone were to detail their case and another person were to reply, "Respect, brother, you have balls" or something of that nature, it might be seen as a spam post by some as it does not help the TS in any way, yet, some may be completely fine with it.
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Things like "pics or GFTO" are spam.Or crap racism,sexually explicit threads are spam too.

QUOTE(silverhawk @ Jul 27 2009, 11:25 PM)
2) A place for people to mingle
This used to be in kopitiam, but I'm sure many people have shifted over to CC due to the crapfest that is kopitiam.
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Yeap,thats why most of us are here.

QUOTE(Dickson Poon @ Jul 27 2009, 11:35 PM)
I've seen the "Karma" system in action before though, and I must say that it doesn't work. It merely allows an idiocracy to truly entrench themselves in the culture by sheer weight of numbers.
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Isnt it the Karma system same as the Good and Bad system that LYN is implementing soon?
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post Jul 28 2009, 12:18 AM

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Getting a good mod isnt easy.

CC isnt the only subforum that is lack of mods.

There are a few section that is also lack of mods.

Mobile Computing suffers more than CC.
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post Jul 28 2009, 12:51 AM

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I,for one agreed to move CC out of Kopitiam entirely.

It has matured to an independent subforum of it's own.
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post Jul 28 2009, 01:14 AM

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If we have a small community of people who wants to change CC to a better place,im all for improving CC then.

It's pretty much cleaner now,especially when Baronic is back.Mengsuan couldnt handle all the traffic here.
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post Jul 28 2009, 04:03 PM

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Chill guys,i dont want to see this to be a flame war here.


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post Jul 28 2009, 04:24 PM

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So,you all want CC to be in /k forever and let /k degrade it to another /k forum with CC tag on the door?

If you want it to be like that,so be it.
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post Jul 28 2009, 04:39 PM

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QUOTE(7chai @ Jul 28 2009, 04:32 PM)
making cupid's corner great ? only lifeless creature do that.
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Making a forum a better place doesnt mean you have to be here 24/7.

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