interesting chart.. applies to hamsap arousal also ar?

well..i bet many guys in pursuit of a girl would plan things so that the outcome would be memorable enough
but sometimes the prob lies with the planning..
think too much d..

have to agree with you.. plan 1/2 month ahead?

I do that when i was in 2ndary school. Now i am a bit more care free.

Hey guys

I really think too much, yeah...

In the past, i thought of girl's religion, education, upbringing, activity and even think what happened if become her partner, something like that...

People ask me to go out more and try to talk with people...

I do, but the problem is always the conflicting topics

So long?

Yes, out of 4 outings, 3 of them were planned for quite a while

Except one outing, which was suggested just hours before we supposed to go for makan

but girls hor..if u wanna date her on let say next weeknend..
u inform them now..they say see how..3 days b4 see how still early..
the day before..say should be no rpob..then on that day..say not free..lolz

well guys jus want to impress the girls..that is y guys think too much..
but gotta think less n go wit the flow..
i do sometimes think too much..alot of times

its more to motivation its like... when u want to start something, u find it very difficult to do it. But when u started, ur so deep into it that u dont stop. Then at the end, ur so near completion that you laze out and want to stop like finish it as quick as possible

in this case, the arousal is stress. So at the end u get more stress den in the beginning. So if u apply that to humsapness, u perform worse when ur OVERLY humsap and UNDERLY humsap XD

This post has been edited by imooatcows: Jun 27 2009, 03:26 PM

I don't know that many girls to realise that part

happened twice on the same girl , now i don't even call her LOL

u have pressure in generating conversation with girls during outing ?
run out of topic ?

bian tai..

That one not the major issue

The problem, is how to make the girl, will not hesitate for a second outing

oh, for motivation only ar? the bold parts is abit when the guy is "doing" it hor?

it always starts with "hello" :3 cant go anymore complicated than that

moo~ moo~

bian tai in wat sense LOL

biasa la especially if just normal hi-bye frens.. SOP (standard operating procedure)

but if she care for you type, it usually won't happen..

in a bian tai sense

the 1st date is very important . So i guess the first will build a bridge for the 2nd date