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Serious Im Malay, And I Love Chinese Girl, I Can Easily Fall In Love w Chinese Girl

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post May 30 2009, 12:19 AM

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QUOTE(dinie90 @ May 30 2009, 12:10 AM)
i oso like chinese girl they really kind n they not sombong but when i talk malay girl jual mahal
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yes... i love them too.. usually when i move to other class, the first person talk to me is chinese girl..

they are very kind and funny biggrin.gif
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QUOTE(Flizzardo @ May 29 2009, 11:56 PM)
what matters is your level not your race
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level..??? u mean by social status...well anyone attracted and tempted to high social status level..its living a fairy tale i guess...

anyway...to TS...if u really love..not just a feeling of liking the girl..by all mean...go ahead..no one cann stop you..but hey..u still student..school or university i donno...u still have lot to learn..anyway..its ur call..we all can advice..talk anything we want about ur situation..but the decision is in ur hand...

there is no right or wrong in dating...or fall in love with Chinese girl..or other races...it just..how far and how well can you handle the "relationship"..??coz you know...when u in inter-racial relationship...or even..inter-racial-religion relationship...(u see how many troube u going to cross into)....u already got different in term of the culture value and believe....so unless you and ur partner...can come to an agreement on this issues...i don't think it would be any problem to bring the relationship to another level...

talk only less action also no point...so you like this girl by looking from far...or made ur first move already and decide to ask question here..??
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not all chinese girls are kind.. some of them are more evil than u think
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post May 30 2009, 12:21 AM

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QUOTE(Nandeska @ May 30 2009, 12:17 AM)
IF the chinese gal is ENGLISH Educated then u will have bigger chance
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This is very true

Chinese girls from SK + SMK, normally more open minded to such relationnship

However, like any relationship related to different religion, parent's mindset, can be an issue
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post May 30 2009, 12:28 AM

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it's depends on what u believe in...if u believe that u can end up to be a inter-racial parents...than go for it....there r some Muslim Chinese around my place that not fully changed their name...maybe just need to add a Malay name in the beginning,middle or end of urs/theirs following with bin/binti Abdullah..that's what they tell me...cheers!!!

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physical attraction lulz
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post May 30 2009, 12:29 AM

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QUOTE(merajey @ May 30 2009, 12:28 AM)
it's depends on what u believe in...if u believe that u can end up to be a inter-racial parents...than go for it....there r some Muslim Chinese around my place that not fully changed their name...maybe just need to add a Malay name in the beginning,middle or end of urs/theirs following with bin/binti Abdullah..that's what they tell me...cheers!!!
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Is it possible for someone, not to change his/her name at all?

In that sense, i mean, the name, is exactly the same like before...
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i always have believed that love conquers all... however when it comes to religion, especially islam, islam will conquer all.... at least for malaysia...

since ure already islam, its no prob for u. just need to see the girl's stance.

normally girls seem to be more open to it (i may be wrong)
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post May 30 2009, 12:36 AM

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QUOTE(nickisthemost @ May 30 2009, 12:28 AM)
physical attraction lulz
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not just physical attraction.. but everything..
i feel comfort when talk with chinese girl... i love to see her face... i love her joke..

just abt everything


Added on May 30, 2009, 12:41 am
QUOTE(Nandeska @ May 30 2009, 12:20 AM)
not all chinese girls are kind.. some of them are more evil than u think
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even evil, i still love it...

if i see evil, i will try to change it..

This post has been edited by bigbangtheory: May 30 2009, 12:41 AM
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post May 30 2009, 12:49 AM

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if u convert to other religion mayb u will get a SUPER GREAT chance HAHAHA
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QUOTE(bigbangtheory @ May 30 2009, 12:36 AM)
not just physical attraction.. but everything..
i feel comfort when talk with chinese girl... i love to see her face... i love her joke..

just abt everything
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so you would prefer to have a chinese gf over others ?


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post May 30 2009, 01:07 AM

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QUOTE(Lov3Tikos @ May 30 2009, 12:16 AM)
this TS have same situation like me . im malay and also love chinese girls . but got chinese girls also like me , and when i or she see each other , we will flutter and smile each other  rclxms.gif but i dunno to flirts girls  doh.gif im a shy guy
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yeah... thats good ..

many chinese girl is cute as button

chinese girl is created to be loved laugh.gif
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post May 30 2009, 01:13 AM

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i love malay guy. rich malay guy.
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QUOTE(bigbangtheory @ May 30 2009, 01:07 AM)
yeah... thats good ..

many chinese girl is cute as button

chinese girl is created to be loved  laugh.gif
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Think twice as its gonna be tough at the end....

This post has been edited by ailleen_82: May 30 2009, 01:48 AM
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QUOTE(ailleen_82 @ May 30 2009, 01:15 AM)
Think twice as its gonna be tough in the end....
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Converting is very very tough

Not just name

But leaving lifestyle, then your generation will halted at that moment..........turned to a new page...
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are you willing to convert yourself out of islam?

how far will you go for her?
are you willing to follow chinese customs when you are at your in-law's house?

i've personally met a muslim man abandoned his own religion for a chinese lady. anyway, its her you are gonna spend the rest of your remaining life with. not your grandpa grandma.

if you are willing to follow chinese customs when you are at your in-law's place, you have a better chance of not getting her parents to object the relationship
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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 30 2009, 01:16 AM)
Converting is very very tough

Not just name

But leaving lifestyle, then your generation will halted at that moment..........turned to a new page...
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nod.gif esp the pressure from the thier family ( Gurl's side )...just like what my sis is facing rite now sad.gif
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QUOTE(ailleen_82 @ May 30 2009, 01:19 AM)
nod.gif  esp the pressure from the thier family ( Gurl's side )...just like what my sis is facing rite now sad.gif
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Ah, i see

What is your opinion then?

Frankly, i liked one girl, but at the end, i opted not to have relationship, because i think, it will be very hard for me...
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QUOTE(atria83 @ May 30 2009, 12:20 AM)
level..??? u mean by social status...well anyone attracted and tempted to high social status level..its living a fairy tale i guess...

anyway...to TS...if u really love..not just a feeling of liking the girl..by all mean...go ahead..no one cann stop you..but hey..u still student..school or university i donno...u still have lot to learn..anyway..its ur call..we all can advice..talk anything we want about ur situation..but the decision is in ur hand...

there is no right or wrong in dating...or fall in love with Chinese girl..or other races...it just..how far and how well can you handle the "relationship"..??coz you know...when u in inter-racial relationship...or even..inter-racial-religion relationship...(u see how many troube u going to cross into)....u already got different in term of the culture value and believe....so unless you and ur partner...can come to an agreement on this issues...i don't think it would be any problem to bring the relationship to another level...

talk only less action also no point...so you like this girl by looking from far...or made ur first move already and decide to ask question here..??
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what are you talking about

your wow level la shakehead.gif

coz all race got their own speciality orc,elf,human it depends on your level
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post May 30 2009, 01:45 AM

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QUOTE(Kampung2005 @ May 30 2009, 01:21 AM)
Ah, i see

What is your opinion then?

Frankly, i liked one girl, but at the end, i opted not to have relationship, because i think, it will be very hard for me...
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As for me…I will try to avoid this kind of situation as I really really love my parents a lot …Although yes you might think parents are just out dated or not open minded but still we as a child shouldn’t break their heart in that way. So, if you are still at the early stage, please let go if you can. But if u just cant (I know love is blind) Then try to compromise in term of culture and everything between the two families. I am not saying islam is bad. All religions are good but please try to respect each other culture and religion as well ( Normally guys side ). Such as go to oversea to avoid the changes on the name, lifestyle and so on……n etc
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