hahaha you're so wrong on this....fruits, nuts, potatoes and most of the calories are provided by the wife, the husband brings back fish and animals. It is equal food ok...those days no money, so food is everything...btw they live in caves no? so its ready made.

I've read this in a book long time ago....so your book says no or you didnt understand?
google about why woman love red and pink and you'll find because they gather fruits, nuts and potatoes, so you're wrong on this, pls be a gentleman and admit to your mistake instead of fighting and hanging on to your ego

you are reading a very very wrong book written by a sexist, pls read more book and come back here again

There are men who talks about women must be independent, must not leech but they still act like a China Men. OK... give pocket money, do house work, help with the kids... they think they've done everything, woman must be happy. They forgot the wife's emotional needs. So end up saying the wife is not content when she grumbles.

kakaka...

its good to find this type of husband    if i am a girl , i would want to find this type of husband also .
Now i know why our opinion differs so much

my mom was not raised in this way , my dad never raise me this way and he taught me to always earn my keep . He has the money to buy me things but choose to only give me the nessescity . and i would say that it made me a better person .
So i grew up watching my mom earning her own keep even for shopping her own cloths and woman stuff and even though dad gave her pocket money and credit card she choose not use it . It made me respect her alot because she is very independant . She also told me if one day my dad leave us she would have money to go on her own .
My mom the champion 

If a woman is willing to marry someone who is not as capable as she is, do you think she is insensitive to her partner's need?
What do you think the woman need that man for? She must love him very much.

Because man normally do not want a woman who is more capable than he is. 

You open poll and ask the men lah.

Maybe we will see some male leeches.

Yes I will. He is confident, loving, caring, hardworking, sensitive, supportive, serious about his work, tries his best etc... he may not do better than me but he is better than a lot of men out there. 

looks like you're reading with your rear end, a man who duno know how to read yet best you can do is talk crap.
Pls do yourself a favor and google if you lazy to buy book. Dun read one book and conclude it is the ultimate truth.

For people who read this...google why female are attracted to pink color, because it is in their gene since prehistoric times to gather fruits.
Since caveman era, man and woman bring food to the table equally and not like what sps says woman those days sit in cave and wait for their food.

Man hunt for animals
Female gather fruits, veg, etc

Pearls before swine, my friend. 

Mr Liar Liar ...are you trying to lie your way out from your own trap?
You said woman sit and wait for food!!!

now read this plucked from wiki
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunter-gatherer

Pls eat your word and not lie your way out, if you're wrong admit your mistake and we can continue the debate about marriage, be a man once in your life would you?

A very good article I found, very good, must read.

http://www.absoluteastronomy.com/topics/Hunter-gatherer

A quote from the article

"A vast amount of ethnographic and archaeological evidence demonstrates that the sexual division of labor in which men hunt and women gather wild fruits and vegetables is an extremely common phenomenon among hunter-gatherers worldwide"

Wow. 1 day and there's 12 pages worth of comments already. >.<
Let me clarify some points since there are some questions directed at me.
1. I love this woman and really want to make her my wife. I just didn't expect it to cost so much.
2. I am simply complaining cause its gonna burn an entire years worth of savings on an event of only 1 day. I can see much better use for the cash.
3. Bear in mind that its only a rough estimate of what it costs so it can come up to much much more.
4. For those who think you can make more out of the "ang pow" from the wedding, its only true if your relatives are rich. Sadly my relatives are from medium to low income bracket and they have many many children (meaning more seats needed, less angpow)

You'll excuse me if I honestly do not envy the man who married the women who got them to pay exorbitant prices for a 1 maybe 2 day event. I feel it is wasteful and there is plenty you can do with the money that will see you through better times. Sadly we chinese haven't learn to throw away our damn "face" so we cannot just have simple weddings like in the western countries. Me and my fiancee want a simple wedding. However, my dad has voiced strong objection to it and he will go so far as to say he will not give his blessing if we don't give the wedding its dues.

I know some of you will say "forget bout your dad, its your life" well sorry to say I'm not a heartless ******* who will forget about the man who raised me, fed me and paid my way through life.

It sickens me that there are still people out there who can forget about their parents so easily.

oh my god you can actually put your own foot into your own mouth...do you even know how to read that article you provided?
It says :

The olden cave man
The modern cave man
Both caveman from 2 era shows and proves, man and woman put equal food on the table? how many book you said you read? you cant even understand a simple 2 page article and you telling me you read how many book again???  

http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/20...sex-humans.html

ok good nite...until you admit you made a mistake then we'll proceed to your sponge question.

Now be a man...dun embarrassed yourself further

Personally I am already lost, don't know what both of you are arguing about already.     

The gist of the debate is because SPS wants to know, "Why women should sponge of men when they can rely on themselves and earn their own living."