i am trying to point out a point which is .

in this modern time ,
Dad job is not only putting food on the table , but also to help out on the house duties .
Mom job is not only in the house , but also if possible , help out on financial .

Why are there still ppl clingy on the concept man MUST 100% provide , woman must DO HOUSE CHORE amaze me .

i am not saying its wrong for a woman be a housewife if both party are happy with it .

Previous post you said ur dad came home and waited for dinner , wouldnt it be better if smtimes he take time off helping ur mom ?

i dono bout all ur family here , but this is how my family works . and i think its very strong as a family .

tryin to make a point that
A father duty is not merely just food on table , and a mother duty is not merely house chore .
times changes ady .

Because man normally do not want a woman who is more capable than he is. 

You open poll and as the men lah.

Mr Liar Liar ...are you trying to lie your way out from your own trap?
You said woman sit and wait for food!!!

now read this plucked from wiki
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hunter-gatherer

Pls eat your word and not lie your way out, if you're wrong admit your mistake and we can continue the debate about marriage, be a man once in your life would you?

      support ~~ TS must be young and ...... emm ..  

 

ya lo ~ i wonder how SAD the parent of his "wife" ..... must be very sad. they already propose 3k saja, yet still got ppl think they money minded.

Wesley Niewoehner, an anthropologist at California State University in San Bernardino, has studied Neandertal hand mechanics.

"I've always been impressed by the observation that female Neandertal hand bones indicate that their hands were just as powerful as those of male Neandertals," he said.

"This indicates to me that female Neandertals were doing things with their hands that required significant physical force."

"Whether this fact means that female Neandertals were performing the same tasks as their male counterparts, or they were simply performing different tasks that required the same amount of force, is up for debate," he said.

Now where does that say Neanderthal women put "equal food" on the table?  I can treat it as a possibility but it is by no means a certainty as the bolded statement above indicates that the antropologist noted so.  One possibility in another article that I have read (but not available online I'm afraid) postulated that the women could have been primarily tool-makers. 

Note there was little GATHERING of pink and red fruits.

Obviously, this is all academic as even the anthropologists themselves are making intelligent guesses at times but let's not forget this has NO bearing on current marriage related behaviors of men and women in modern society.

Do you DARE to answer my question?

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Added on May 12, 2009, 11:09 pm
Obviously I read and cpmprehend English a LOT better than you.

Re-read the National Geographic article and tell me where does it state Neanderthal women put an EQUAL amount of food on the table.

Be an honest woman and prove your statement!  The only red-faced one here is you.

hahahaah lol call me jakun or whatever, but why does dowry still exist?

I a little lost too but the sources that SPS have attained are notable sources.

@TS, better think wisely before you make a decision. It's better to take some times and work out the problems before committing to a marriage.