If she dun mind about my "current status"

well,...by end of the day...gals still want to see "those material" 1st rite? eventhough no matter wat age is the guy is...teenage,working ppl.C'mon...no 1 can lie to me....even no gals can lie to me as well!

Eventhough I have all those material 1 day,I know gals will looking for this type of guys as gals always want a guy with confidence (most gals relate confidence = money,career,car,house and etc) BUT I will always be careful on tis type of gals!

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: Apr 30 2009, 12:56 PM

see u are contradict urself edi, of course she dun mind ur current status then only she will confess to u.

then, would u accept her ? she looks ugly, duno makeup and dress like kampung gal.

then when u can own all these things? i think we might be happy to see the gal that u choose and she chosen u too....

u wan ferrari, u gotta hav teh bucks..
if not then settle for kancil.. or potong..

and .. the other way around,.. if a kancil wanna sell as expensive as ferrari, no one will buy it.

think of what that means. LOL

since u ad know the answer , isnt it time to push teh button?

I love my bf very much. It's just because he is groomed with personalities that a man has, which are also that kind of man that I'm looking for.

He is well-to-do compared with the peers at his age, which is late 20s, but he deserves all these as he is ambitious enough. He never rank and never admit to failures. I will still love him if he lost all his belongings on day, I know he has never given up to work hard for a better living, he has not ceased to improve.

Bernard, owns a car, land, houses mean nothing. All these are just a symbol of how much hard work you have paid. The harder and smarter you work, the more you gain. Because of my bf's personalities, I have no cares, no worries of our future. You get what a girl wants? This is the security that a gal wants, which is what I'm trying to tell all along.

All the best to you, Bernard.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Apr 30 2009, 05:03 PM

Debbie....Is too early for u to say tis,wait if this really happens then I believe u might think differently.Most gals always say "I will not leave u if u become broke or bankruptcy 1 day,as long as we can be together" But when it really happens,wat they say/promise is forgotten!

Most gals always say looking for security,confidence from a guy...but end of the day is $$$ playing the role behind.When money becomes the issue,love fade away and break up happened.

I do face some gals says that she dun mind bout my "current status" and etc.But end up I still find out wat really she wants from me.Let me tell u...no gals can cheat/lie to me...no matter how pretty she is!

I see some 1 of my guy's fren break up just bcos he failed once,immediately his GF break up with him!!!

IMO,if a gal really loves a guy...she needs to accept tat guy's strong & weakeness! She wil share the burden with her love one if anything happens! IF a gal can't accept his BF weaknesses which means she will nvr accept who he is and relation will nvr last long! (prove to me if im wrong)

In a relationship, it takes 2 to tango

Or think of 2 things, achievable and realistic, if it lacks either 1, it won't materialise

This post has been edited by shinjite: Apr 30 2009, 07:00 PM

I agree wif u! but need to add another 2 more which is understanding and trust!

Yes. I agree of what you said - it is money that plays the role. But as I said, money is just a signal showing how much efforts the man has paid off. The more money he has, the more ambitious he is and the more secured he is to rely on. If you are to say I love money, then why don't I go for the guy who is far richer than my boy friend since there's a boss of a multi national company that courting me. You get what I mean? It's the guy's personalities that attract a gal.

It's not a shame for the man who fails, but he himself has to be confident and able to overcome the failure, work hard and smart; if he himself not even have confident on himself, rant and complain and blame on others all day long, he doesn't worth the gal to wait for him.

This post has been edited by debbieyss: Apr 30 2009, 10:13 PM

no civic type-r no talk

no money, u dont have no right to nego/talk with them.
they will treat you differently, trust me.
so guys, work hard to maintain above them !

girls just like showing off, if you are a bad bf, i assume most of them will still praise/lift you in front of others.

when they cannot tahan, or they found someone better..die lo.

I agree wat u say here....cos I faced tis b4.

To me,im always very careful on gals! Tats y no gals can lie/cheat on me!

actually dats the fun of being a man ma...if youre high earner and drive sports car then you can f$*( any girl you like.....play enuf liao then dump and find another one...

We are judged just as we place our judgment of others. If money is your criteria, and often it is, then yes, money/salary/income is thus the key performance indicator, and indeed, by ranking choices available to them based on this KPI, we would indeed see that ppl with higher amounts of money is more attractive.

I think it is important that he has an income because it shows his maturity.
As for income level, it is not that important as long as he has good work ethics i.e. he is able to work hardworkingly, diligently and cheerfully.

you just want his body

YOU NYMPH

Bernard... still in this Q ar??? then how many years u wannt keep on saying that no gals can cheat u until u meet a right girl in ur life ar??????????

unless there is a gal who can accept me without "looking on my income,looks & current status"..if there is a gal who love me & can accept me by her heart!

cutiepooh,seriously....I see my frens become a "fool" bcos of gals! Been lie or cheated as well.Some even drop their tears due to they can't accept tis happen to them.As for me,I dun allow tis happened to me.

No matter how pretty/beautiful a gal is.....no gals can lie/cheat on me.Cos I faced my biggest challenge b4 with PRC gals who wanna try to hipnosis me! But she failed to even though she try to sweet talk,seduce me by using her beauty!

I'm not a person who can be fallen under a beauty! And I nvr cry or drop a tear for a gal too! Tat's the difference between me n other guys!

This post has been edited by b3rnard7: May 4 2009, 11:22 AM

haiz.... if u kept saying this... how you gotta find a gal????? u haven accept already judged she is cheating u????? then my looking also a bad girl... some of my guy friends said those things i am wearing now all branded.. bf bought to me???? but the problem is not at all... after they found out those things i bought myself they also unbelievable la...

not every girls like what u think .... look for normal gf ... don demand of pretty....

I won't judge a person too early my fren,it takes some time to know a person "REAL side"

Yes,I believe not every gals is like wat I think...but I always becareful on myself.As I dun1 to see myself end up like my guy's fren who faced it b4.

Dun say pretty gals la...even normal looking or below average looking gals also being materialistic d these days....tats why I always remind myself dun be a fool/silly person!