agree agree....fully commit urself to tis guy...shower him wit love and care....time will make him 4get about it.....
my bf cant forget my past relationship, he mind my past thing
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QUOTE(Hejime @ Apr 14 2009, 01:26 PM) well... i sort of understand what he feels like i think that you have put the wrong situation wit TS....no1 can forget if a person gf/wife caught sleeping wit another guy...you are in a relationship and ur gf backstab u..you can think of this problem this way as well... imagine you're in a relationship and you caught your gf or wife sleeping with another guy only once and you decide to lie to yourself that you'll forgive her but yet you can't forget it is easy to forgive but it is very difficult to forget what you can do is like what others say.. commit yourself to him and most importantly... make him feel that you are entirely his  but TS situation is, her bf can forget her past....not caught her sleeping wit other guys while in their relationship..... no offends but forgetting the past is much easier than forgetting a backstab... |
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tell ur bf to let it go if he really love her very much...a past is a past.....there are no benefit if ur bf keep thinking about it....a tiny mistake wont coz the earth crash into the sun....
and both of u love each other and getting well along.... if he still cant 4get bout it, seek a professional advice....it helps. |
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QUOTE(megadisc @ Apr 14 2009, 02:07 PM) give him a nice baby this would be a great idea...TS should take in serious consideration about having a baby wit your bf  ....once tie the knot...its a new beginning...  |
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i'm not sure where u can get it in malaysia....(marriage consultant got la
 )most of the advice for relationship porblem i seek is from the internet and books(reading books is good to improve the relation)... |
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TS +u+u+u to keep up the good work and don't never ever give up on keep trying.....someday, ur bf will realize how much u love him and how foolish of him cant let go of the past instead of seeing the future of u both....
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QUOTE(BouncyBall @ Apr 14 2009, 04:13 PM) let him have sex with some other girls, so its fair for him. (if he is a virgin) if not then tell him what about his past?? this wont do gal....u only will make him to bcom more gatal....wat if in the future ur bf bcom a sex hunger...can u accept him have sex wit any gal then??Edited. P/S: sry cracksys...i quote the wrong post..didnt realize it  ......very very sry for any misunderstanding and trouble cause by me to you   This post has been edited by sai86: Apr 14 2009, 09:15 PM |
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Think of how to make my current gf happy every single day and every single moment together.....
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QUOTE(k!nex @ Apr 14 2009, 10:10 PM) my opinion, just dun talk abt tht issue.dun even mention it.when ur bf high already, he wont think of all those also.if he still wanna talk abt it, straight away french kiss him until he cant talk la I agree...TS sure do deserve respect from all of us being honest,patient and understanding at the same moment. i understand that u're just being honest and u feel guilty to lie to ur current bf that u're not virgin,thts y u told him the truth. u deserve my respect though my own thoughts, if my future gf can 'lead' me, not bad also  And has the will to solve problem in d relationships...... Ur bf sure is a lucky guy as I am...got a gf that can lead me ....if not..now i still a Mr. Do-Stupid Thing...  |
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QUOTE(suzanne2196 @ Apr 15 2009, 12:36 AM) huh?? u mean ur gf same situation lik me? correct me if i m wrong >.< i m quite blur now..sleepy dy no la...u both have d same determination and sacrifice alot for your partner....which make me realize how good my gf been treating me and how important she is to me....i hope ur bf soon will be touch by ur love,care,sacrifices and what you have done for him...... if ur bf still stuborn..ask him to contact me via here and i giv him a lesson of life he will never 4get  btw, u can also ask one of his best fren to advice him (some1 trustworthy, mature/ not some cica boy which makes matter worse)... even through this normally is hard to work....you got to try anything tat can be done....or consult his parents(if his parent is a understanding ppl, not outdate)... but all in all....as all the reply here said...TIME will prove it as this matter can only be resolved by ur bf alone...what u can do is try to change what he mind about your past....Dun ever give up on HIM!!! Wish you all the best and have a nice day ever after...  |
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