Hi guys,

Lately i have experienced PE, and it really frustrating.

After some researching via internet, it seems like anti-depression drugs are effective in controlling the PE. Those drugs are Prozac (fluoxetine), Paxil (Paroxetine) etc. The internet research has no clear conclusion whether to take it daily @ 20mg or on-demand before action.

I consulted my family doctor about the problem, and he prescribed me a medicine named Frisium, recommend me to take it 3 hours before intercourse, it should help. I have not tried it so not sure about the result.

Does anyone have experience in this PE problem, your advice is very much appreciated.

My question: based on your experience……

Q1: Does the anti-depression drug such Prozac, Paxil is really effective?
Q2: Daily dosage or on-demand?
Q3: What about the Frisium by my doctor, internet info is limited in this drug type?

Many thanks.

If you can't be constructive, don't post at all.

This post has been edited by malaysianPotato: Apr 13 2009, 11:28 PM

i thought most of the guy have PE...its not a big deal anyway...

Hi Perseus,

What did you mean?

I am actually asking for advice because i have not tried this drug type before.

Any experience with this type of problem is welcome, so everyone of us can learn more.

As we all know, it is kind of difficult to talk face to face with PE.

Appreciated.

All I said was to masturbate before having sex.


What is not constructive about this advice?


The 2nd time is always harder to ejaculate so after you masturbate before sex you would've at least controlled it somewhat.


The moderator obviously has an ego problem to see the advantages of the advice.


If moderator has no iq please don't simply censor my posts.


I do not advocate drugs to control premature ejaculation.


My advice is way more constructive than drugging and harming your body.

This post has been edited by Perseus: Apr 14 2009, 12:08 PM

Yeah, i have tried to maturbate before intercourse, it will definately prolong the timing, but the problem is, you have no mood / lesser mood to go for the intercourse after the masturbation.

This infact affect the quality of the love making. I could not feel the high enough and it always ended unsatisfactory.

I prefer safe drug.

Please help.

No need drugs. Use interruptus technique.

You could get your gf to arouse you to the point almost wanna cum then stop by squeezing hard.

Train a few more times until you learn to control in future.

You said if tak boleh no hope or some crap which I can't be bothered to remember. How is that in any way constructive? How's that an ego problem on my end? Do you even know what the word ego means? If I had a problem understanding the advice it would be a comprehension problem.
IQ is irrelevant, a low IQ is not indicative of one's ability to read and comprehend.

While we're at it, you did read the part where he say's it's a new problem right? How does masturbation = no brainer? Depending on the cause of the problem, psychological or physiological, fap before sex may not work. No brainer? Hardly.

This post has been edited by malaysianPotato: Apr 14 2009, 11:02 PM

The original posting by Perseus was:

get to the root (pun intended) of the problem. could it be some psychological prob/stress thats affecting ur performance? maybe try exercising if u havent done that.

Meaning before this you never had this prob before? Maybe stress gua

@TS:
have you tried using Durex Performax?

that is what i use to deal with my problem.

.is it more excited after using it as it is more smooth?

My wife did not like condom.
I used the Durex Performax - yes it help a lot, but she did not like to have condom.
Really headache lah.....

i think you should try vco31 ... yea actually no girl like domdom...

erm no la.

it allows boys to poke longer, faster without cumming too fast.

aiyo susah lah then i dunno how to help liao.

how come she do not like to use condom eh?

mind sharing her reasons with us?

what is vco31 oh?

why say that "no girl like domdom?"

what is wrong with using condoms? :

I am with poster on this to avoid drug use. Look around the net for good articles (not junk ones) that help with dealing with this issue.
Part of it is indeed psychological but there are other little exercises that can help.

Off the top of my head one is where just before you reach the point of no return, you stop and wait a while for the 'tension' to lessen. If I remember correctly, repeated exercises of this could result in you lasting longer before you climax.

Wife also has a part to play in helping the man to reassure him that there is nothing wrong and she is there in full support.

I can point you to Menshealth for a start. Try the natural remedies first before going to drugs. Drugs should always be a last resort but in our day an age when 2 minute noodles are considered 'good' because we're always rushing, drugs seemingly are a quick fix to things but there are always possible side effects (long term) which we might not be aware of.

well, what are the side effects of long term usage of benzoncaine, if any?

Natural way is the best. anyway how long can u stay? 10 minutes? 30 minutes?

You should research more and try to find a natural way to stop PE. There are many useful solutions out there, the only thing is your effort of looking for it.