Oh shi-

That's........gonna unleash the gayness in hawkie..=.=

You're just twisting yourself and try to depend on others perception and their liking to determine which personality fits best? Not that i doubt such possibilities exist in a person, but how's that going to help you get a relationship at the first place? If you think that making yourself complicated makes you a better person, then get ready to be attracted by other complicated person then or somebody who understood your complication well enough. But the question remains whether such complications exist in you are able to bring you further down the road in a relationship. Are you capable enough to maintain a relationship with your existing complicated traits?

There is a reason why the thread here is all about fundamentals. The technical stuffs are for you to discovers yourself through your own mind power such as creativity, acknowledgment, perseverance and strong will for example. Spoon fed is not going to bring you anywhere. You can't ask Silverhawk to quantify or qualify the necessary traits to attract somebody. Its too advance and that will require years of works not to mention it isn't proven no matter how many surveys are conducted. So many factors are contributed to a single idea which is called attraction. And attraction itself isn't a choice whether you like it or not. (yes yes silverhawk, i know you're trying to tell me where i stole the idea from )

If you need a rough idea on those details, might as well go read books on relationship. That will give you some general traits and ideas and perhaps more detailed ones. You can't expect one to just wrote a technical point of views and quantify/qualify which one suits which ones. I bet even the Harvard grads can't guarantee that since they themselves could be having a hard time within relationships among friends and couples.

Silverhawk's idea is simple and profound enough. Once you know where to start fundamentally, construct your own foundation or standards and from there start building into a person you want to build all these while using your own mind or brain. Sooner later, you will subconsciously or consciously attract somebody that fits yours or yours to hers. Either you'll be the magnet or the one to be magnetize by the other. Till then, that's when you know the importance of chemistry.

Men cannot escape from judging one another. This is a fact. Whether it be a good one or a bad one, that depends on the action or the result which could breed either hate or love. There might be a silver line between these two, but i can't go no further since its hard to go into details unless im in that particular situation you mentioned. Not to mention both of us have different upbringing and mentality.



How do you figure it out and exactly how do you try to 'remove' your personalities? Or in other words, you create an illusionary standard to suits others? Unless you have the spiritual capacity and the mental strength to do that without regrets, then i should be silent from here then.



Hopefully you will understand that people will never understand each other as a whole. There's a reason why secrecy is important as well. Just like you said, a fraction, which i believe is adequate enough. Believe me, even your parents will never understand you as a whole person. A singular trait is often easy to attract other singular traits. For example, loyal does attracts commitment. But put in loyal and possessiveness and mix it together, it could work as a double edge sword. And the problem is, we humans are not identified by singular traits but the mix of them. This is where things get complicated and most of the time people keep them discreet for others to know. Trying to figure it out, is just a waste of time unless you're very keen in understanding that person and normally we do that when we want to venture in a romantic relationship or finding a long term partner. Even by doing that, we tend to make mistakes.

We are all selfish in nature. We want the best for ourselves hence loving yourself or be yourself works the best to deal with pain and growth in the coming future. Only by doing that you have enough capacity to care for others and share what you have in yourself to others. If you keep trying to make others happy, how long are you going to stand? We're not talking about a few days. We're talking about the coming years as you age and mature. Might as well deal with your imperfections and others imperfection. And if others want to see or perceive you the way they want to perceive, there's nothing you can do unless you change your own self rather than forcing them to believe.

Then since this post of yours describe your willingness to be a whole person or happier, why bother asking here which personality to choose to suit others' standards or perception at your previous post?

Trust me. Carlos Xuma's relationship book pawns Neil Strauss 'The Game' big time.

You, marehsian?

Orite orite. You can get it online if you want. Of course through paypal, if you want a more secure transaction.

Aku rasa fundamental ni pun bersesuaian dengan transvetite dan homosexualiti. Betulkah pendapat saya?

and expandable for future purposes. You gotta upgrade somehow at a certain point.

oh shi------------

I have better options compare to google.