Jul 20 2009, 09:28 AM
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People without standards have no self-worth. Someone without self-worth has no life. A person without a life, has nothing to share with others. No one wants a lifeless git as a partner.
So set some standards, get some self-worth, get a life, and then you'll be able to get someone.
So set some standards, get some self-worth, get a life, and then you'll be able to get someone.
Best advice ever. I'd like to elaborate on it if I may.
I think most people get stuck in the frame of: "If I could only meet the right man/woman, then my life would have meaning, I would be complete."
If you are single now, and your life does not have meaning now, then adding a relationship is not going to help. It's like putting a brick on top of a house of cards.
Only way to have a happy life is to develop one for yourself 1st, then invite others to come share it with you...which is very hard IMO. Hard because 99% of the time, they turn out to be doing what you used to do before...ie looking for someone to "complete them" or relies on you for validation and self worth. People like this end up draining away all of that energy that you've worked so hard to build up, and leaving you exhausted and frustrated. Which circles us back to standards again =P
This post has been edited by kilojoule: Jul 20 2009, 09:33 AM
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