Then study harder, work harder, earn more money, then you can choose which girls you want. 

she...i can say a dead fish
very cold blooded type , very hard to make her into feel = =" very diff from other girls

hey guys im new here . but ive been viewing for sometime already 
i have came up with a way to talk to an unknown girl that u might like

ok here goes i need 2 phones where my main 1 i save the others number with the name cupid or god or something like that
and when i see a girl i like i use the other phone saying "please pass this message to the beautiful girl in red ( lets just say she's wearing red) .. hey this guy actually would like to go out with you sometime but he is too shy . if you wouldnt mind going out with him just save ur name and number onto his phone and give it back or if you dont just say "you got the wrong person" to him

would be nice if there is any girls in here were to comment on this if it will make it more comfortable for guys to approach you not coming off weird

Yup... I've learnt it through the hard way :')... I remember those days in high school where I kept whining over rejections and failures in love life... but as I moved on, I realised that no one respect those who has low esteem or "emo"... people like to mix with energetic person... I mean, c'mon, nobody wanna come out just to hear you whining over something, instead they prefer to mix with you if you can tell them jokes, make their day seem brighter... once or twice it's fine, but not all the time... they too have their own problems to solve, leave alone on helping yours...

Instead of crying over your failures, you should pick yourself up and increase your "standards"... there are so much things to do in life, and yet so little time... have you considered of building up your body shape (going to gym, play sports)? have you considered of become more knowledgeable (reading more books)? have you considered of getting higher paid (working harder)?.... what I'm trying to say, why don't you do something to prove the girl wrong for dumping you?... from what I believe,  girls normally dump guy because she feels that you don't have the standard of meeting her requirement... no such thing as "I wanna remain single in my life"...

Think of the benefits ... if you have those standards, not only you prove her wrong but guess what, you gain respects from others especially your friends... your friends will take you as role model, your parents will be proud of you and so many things... the best of all, you'll manage to attract tone of girls...

ok, here's my point of view... naturally girls are attracted to:
1) knowledgeable guy who can talk merely about anything... from mystical subjects like horoscope to sensitive subjects like politic... how to get these? read more of course ... if you have time, just read... be it a love story book or whatsover...

2) you are attracted to girls with sex body, girls are attracted to guys who have nice body ... as we can change on how we look, but that doesn't mean we can't improve it... I mean, groom up yourself... nice hair cut, buy some facial stuffs to have good outlook... then go to gym to build up your body... ok, just a perception only k, "muscular body give girls a sense of security"...

3) no one wants to stay with you know, poor guy... although there is love, but without money, soon you'll find the girl leaving too... so you gotta work hard, own car, house... then slowly the girl will come to you... treat it like this... which one you prefer, an island full of trees but no shelters... or an island full of houses and resources... you is the island and your money is the resources and shelters... but an island with natural disaster also, the girl will run away also... natural disaster is like your attitude, is your island constantly in good weather or constantly heavy storm??

here is what i gotta share

What does it mean when a girl that I've been chatting suddenly doesn't want to reply me on whatsapp/messenger, but she read the message and that's it.

I've keep sending a few hellos and Hi's and how're u kind of message day to day but no reply....

Nice guy 101: Redefining your definition.

Women don't really want the nice guy. They always say they want a nice guy, but what they really want is a great guy. A guy with principles. A guy who really understands and respects himself. Nice guys respect themselves in a way, but they always agree. Whenever they're out on a date with a woman, they're always agreeing with everything she says. She may say, “I love to eat eggs while hiking up a mountain.” And while the nice guy knows doing something like that will give him indigestion, he'll say, “Sounds great! I love to hike mountains while eating eggs, too!” She may tell him, “I really want to take a skydiving vacation.” The nice guy might have acrophobia, and still he'll say, “Me, too!”

The Nice Guy Defined

While the nice guy is an agreeable person, he's got no control over his life. He allows women to come into his life, he agrees with them on everything, and hopes and prays that these women will like him for being so agreeable. It's so important for women to like him, so he's Mr. Agreeable.
Mr. Agreeable never gets the girl. He never gets the second date after the first because he's boring. What being so agreeable tells a woman is that you do not have enough self-respect to stand up to your own values. You don't think enough of yourself to own your identity, so you become accommodating, inoffensive and boring. You become the boring nice guy nobody wants to date. When you’re attracted to a woman, you do everything you can to please her. She's got a cold? You’ll bring her cold medicine. She tells you she's got a headache tonight? You drive her home. She tells you that she can't see you this weekend, you'll say, “Oh, that's OK. We'll get together whenever you're ready.” You don't have a plan. You're wishy-washy on everything you do. You're Mr. Whatever-You-Want-To-Do.

Nice guys never stand up for themselves, because that’s what nice guys do — they don't believe they can get women. They've got this fear that they can’t get the woman they truly want, so they take whatever they can get. They literally beg their way into a relationship. And a woman knows that from there on, she basically has him by the balls.

Be A Great Guy, Not A Nice Guy

If you're nice, that's great, but what you really want to be is a great guy. You want to be a man who treats people well and also stands up to his own principles. You want to be a man who stands on his own two feet and isn't afraid to stand up to a woman just because he’s attracted to her. You want to be a man who leads, a man who decides if he wants to pursue the relationship or not, not a nice guy who tries to conform to her wants every which way and puts himself in the beggar's role. Nice guys are beggars. Great guys are catches.
To get there, you have to truly believe it. You have to live your life in a way that you truly want and not give it up just to make your date happy. You have to know that you are a great, interesting person to date, that you can get the women you want and that you can get laid when you want. Women want to be with a guy who knows he can actually get laid by other women but chooses to be with her. Women don’t want to be with a guy because she is his only option.

If you’re nice at heart, you’re nice. You treat people well. Embrace it — it’s a great quality to have. Don’t hide it by playing games and trying to be a bad boy. But what you need to do is be a great guy. Don’t be nice just to get a woman to like you. It never works.

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alright... so how to know when a girl likes u??
any hints or clues?