Here's an advice of a 34 year old man with 2 kids to the young bucks just dipping their toes in the dating game.

Remember guys, time is at our side.

For most of us, the older you get, the more attractive you are.

The key is to improve yourself, to add experience and to work hard in school and get the best job you can.

Young guys must first focus on their self first.

Get fitter, get smarter, get more life experience and ultimately you must self actualize. Then your confidence will then come.

Once you achieve all that, the girls will come with  little effort on your part.