i agree, the saying nobody will like you if you don't like yourself is true in that post...

but think about it this way, if you already developed yourself in nearly all aspects, ie physically, emotionally, financially etc..then why the need to find a partner? more often than not, the individuals that managed to achieve such personal success wont even bother to be in relationship anymore...

it's like, you already have all that you can and want develop within yourself, then why the heck you need someone in your life to be your partner, since it will just clamp down your freedom, or perhaps, if you don't have those positive inner criteria as mentioned, would the partner that already attracted to you still remain by your side??

its just my thoughts, but i think when we already changed our inner self for the better, then finding a partner is already redundant

It'll be exhausting later on, even if you've reached a certain promotion, there's no telling if your partner will jump to the next best/better guy if he's more successful. It's a game of never ending race...