To me, words is just words, it can't apply / have the same outcome for all people. What might seems to work for some, might not work for others and vice versa. But that doesn't mean that we dont have to try, just know our boundaries, and be realistic about it. It's much healthier than drowning in your fantasies.

I'm just wondering, meeting to someone standard's so just we could be given higher chances to fit into their life/acceptance? At what costs? Losing our true self and identity? Let say he/she's a hyper social person/meterialistic while we are plain simple in every aspect. It doesn't feel right to change ourselves so we could fit in their lifestyle. Sounds like we ought turn to hypocrits by changing ourselves / styles/ whatever just to fit someone else's perception/approval.

That's not me. If people can't accept me for being the way I am, then so be it..

Haha aboogheettt....

then be dead stone cold! force your heart to become cold.