i understand ur situation bro. i've been there before. u are in the 'nice guy' zone.
sorry to say, but u are a boring, insecure, and no confident guy at all.
actually, u're good but u can't attract womens and womens doesn't seem to be attracted to u except if u are handsome, but even then, a handsome face is still not enough to make her really want u and a handsome face without a personality is a big turn off for women.

good things about women is that their don't really care about ur looks. and yeah, for me, looks don't mean shit.
i've been thinking for all my life, i know that i'm a handsome guy and everybody said that to me, but i was wondering, how come i never attract girls in my life ? f**k my life. i've seen guy with no face but got a beautiful or pretty nice gf. what's wrong ? how did they do that ?

for me, picking up girls is just the same like doing business or playing games. what happen when u go into business without knowledge and skills ? BANKRUPT.
same goes to attracting women, without knowledge and skills, u get REJECTED.

picking up girls is not so hard actually, have u seen the guy in the 50 shades of grey? for me that's one of a good example to study how to pick up girls u want.
u see how he make eye contact with anastasia(the girl in the movie). that confident level, that eye contact, that devil smirk that guy show, i told u, women really can't stand that. i can confirm that bcause i've been there before. really, women can't resist that. she might have her guard up for quite some times, but eventually most girls will surrender or doesn't realize she eventually put her guard down if that guy is skillful, confident, and persistent enough.

in ur situation, chatting is childish(except if u or the girl r mid school students) except if u have met that girl before and she knows u.
from ur post, this is most guy problems. f**k off mann. ur style of chit chatting is boring for most women and even there is women that treat u, she will friendzone u for sure.

u need to condition urself mannn, take care of ur RITUAL(what u do everyday) and if u think u do it just by today, u r wrong. u need to take care of it every single day as long as u live.
if u're a the kind of guy that play doto 24 hours or study 24 hours, i bet there's no chance.
study and respect urself, go out, talk with people, build ur confidence, never give up.

i used to be a super hardcore gamer(play doto 24 hours) and nerd(only know study) before, but now my life has changed since the moment i fall in love with a woman but eventually she broke my heart into thousand pieces when i know she already had a boyfriend. nevertheless, i think its ok, i'll keep on searching the right one and never give up.

now if i go into a bar or a room, just within a few minutes, i can guess how many girls are interested in me.
same goes to talking with a women, just a few minutes, or probably down to 30s, i can tell whether she's interested in me or should i go to the next women.
this skills and knowledge all can be learned.

tips i can share to build ur self confidence is :

1. fail a lot.
2. be polarizing(f**k the rules society put on u)

3. stop giving a f**K
-rather than be the one that everybody "likes" as acquaintance, better be the one
that people genuinely likes u, appreciate u for who u are. of course not everyone
will like u. some will like u, some will not. so what ? don't give a f**K.

4. be urself, do what u really wants, do the things that makes u happy

This post has been edited by Dominion101: Feb 4 2016, 12:21 AM

yep, i know u r referring to the real bad boy. young girls might prefer this kind of man but only for short-term.
however, keep in mind that as they get older, they'll realize that this real 'bad boy' has no future and isn't a good choice for long-term relationship and they'll get boring if the guy doesn't change.
at this stage too, the 'bad nice guy' is really what most women will prefer. and if u reach this level, congrats.
u know how to make women wants u so badly.
at the same time, u put ur vision and ambition over women. u bring and inspire ppl around u, not bring them down.
but still u're a DICK , but not a F**K**G DICK.

This post has been edited by Dominion101: Feb 4 2016, 02:44 PM

couldn't agree with u more

This post has been edited by Dominion101: Feb 4 2016, 05:28 PM