Yo mah brother from another mother.

Your first post only described (although pretty well) how to meet expectations, and setting standards.

Your description on the important criteria of Self Confidence was a lil vague.

and perhaps u shud go into other characteristics required to start courtship, to make the thread fit the title and make it truly "pin" quality

true enough lol. oh hey maybe we shud start a Heralds of Chivalry thread, since some people say chivalry is dead

the quality of threads in CC has dropped like crazy....look at the number of retarded threads around. time to do something serious here. will do it later during my free time

chemistry can only get u so far. if you're incompatible, you're incompatible. your patience in giving in to the incompatibility can only last so long. however, it is possible to compromise instead of giving in and reaching some sort of middle ground.

but this can only be done if you at least have a good foundation, chemistry aside