there are no exact rules to get the girl you wanted
however, if you want the better looking girl means you probably have to consistently make more than rm120k per year, that doesnt include the emotional compatibility for a long term partner.

As cliche saying, find a less attractive woman with great personality as your partner. And women should also be less greedy and settle for average joes. If you are influenced by social medias 'the outside moon is always rounder' mentality, you'll always feeling inadequate as a human being.

how to get the girl you wanted?
It depends on
what you want (short/long term)
what she wants (culture/age group/family background/her past dating histories)

If you want an early 20s hotter female (short term casual relationship) it's better to be more polarising with your appearance and behavioral management

The more you live up to your experiences, the more you realize there's no binary explanation when it comes to anything in life.

If you're being authentic and true to your desires, people will automatically be drawn to you there's no need to constantly chase people. You attract people and things in your life because you're the pillars of strengths (fearlessness, certainty, mystery, amused mastery, nonchalance)

The difference between a keyboard warrior and a womanizer is the ability to generate leads instead of debating whats attraction-comfort on forum. The social acuity and intuition is something that cannot be taught easily

Everyone knows how to be confident, but consistently able to execute so called plan is what makes a different standing out

there are nuances when it comes to getting the type of woman the man desired. So it can not be boring unless if he or she decides it's time to stop playing the field, so to speak

human psychology has always been interesting even though a lot of researchers have done studies on it

when you test it out on the field by yourself, its like playing a stimulator