my gf cheated me by going out with guy hugging and kissing, but after i discovered she promised me that she will never repeat her mistake again.. But last week i found out a guy messaged her by calling her baobei, but she said there's nothing between them.. i forgave her once again.. but i am suffering now cause she studying far away for me.. wat u all will do if u are me? should i forgive her?

hahhaha, dump her, its aint worth ur time, trust me, ve been assisting a friend who his gf f*& somebody else and promised the same thing. Later, got betrayed again. Its aint worth it man. my friend have become 'wacky' and revengeful eversince. Just dump her, she's not worth it

trust is a f*cking important thing to me...once betrayed, i will nvr EVA trust that person again. but its different for everybody....and its not like i've nvr tried forgiving....i tried holding on for 2 yrs..but at the end of the day, i realize i can never forget it...and so i broke up...

wish u all the best

but then again, gurls these days are the one doing most of the cheating...not guys anymore...

TS, I think this is not the right place for you to post.
BTW, if you really love her, you'll gives yourself 100 of reasons to forgive her. It's depends on how much trust did you gave her.
In her mind she might be thinking to give herself another option. Show your love and care to her. Let her feel that being with you is the right option.

she's cheating on u...they are still having an affair..just let her go..dont hurt urself...

You sure what you're talking about?

Dont trust her anymore! you deserve someone whois better than her! trust me! You can do it!

It is all depends to individual

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Happy Holidays.

so sad...i guess TS was so down...and he forgot about the rules

Break up is the path to ur freedom......and out from sad world

One can always forgive someone, but one can always remember it!

no more 2nd chance bro.. juz leave her n me teman u find a better wan...

Listen to "Too Phat - Just A Friends"

That is my comment about this topic

just forget it and leave her. it happens to me also, my gf far from me. and she cheat me, she always go to club and enjoy with a guy. she so hot. after 4 month, she leave me and not tell me want break. so sad. but reach now, i always love her. but i cant do anything. i not smart in love. need learn love with someone. actually, dont trust girl and many girls are liar. this is my comment la about women. i dont know comment u all about women.

Got to agree on this. Theres once and twice, trice will always come along. Sometimes, it dont mean that you love someone and will forgive anything. Maybe once cause people do make mistakes, but why more? If you giving love, of course you want love in return. Who on earth have the right mind that want to give love and get shet in return?

If you think that because you're a guy and you forgive your girl for banging your car into a tree. That's gentelmen and forgiving. If you think because you're a guy and forgive your girl for banging other guys again and again. That's abusing the theme of gentelmen and foolish. Well, all above is only my personal view. It's up to yourself really. Good luck.

Once bitten twice shy, she was 2-timing you. Hugging and kissing may be too much.

Get rid of her and move on ...

True friend no cheat, somemore she is your GF....think about it.

Have you ever heard "Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me."?

Chinese said "yat chi bat zong....bak chi bat yong"

once started a lie...forever the lies will go on

What do you mean by cheat you again?

Cheated you for the second time ? First time tak learned a lesson keh?

After reading most of the replies here i had to read your post again just to get a grip on situation. Sigh. Anyway, does studying far means you're still able to see her on a weekly basis, at least?

Three strikes and you're out, no? There's a limit to forgiving and fidelity ain't something anyone look lightly upon. Words are cheap, if you have trouble even trusting her then this relationship doesn't look bright at all.

Talk to her, seriously. What does she wants? She's looking for some fun? Is she serious about you?

Then get real about yourself. Can you deal with her flirtatious nature? Obviously not. And tell her what she's doing is hurting you.

Whatever the outcome, this is your relationship and you should have enough logic in that brain of yours whether both of you should patch up or just let go. There's more to life than being a doormat.

haha TS same wif my ex-gf u still ok a bit hug n kiss oni my ex go hav sex wif other guy n got a few secret bf which i dunno when i found out damn f***ing angry feel like kill those asses....... !@#$%^&*(

So Once Again gal cheat u the first time nvm see then second chance if same better let it go dun waste ur time wif those B!TCH coz they r ROTI PET no offence

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Apr 4 2009, 05:17 PM

that's a lot of wrath stored up inside you.

could have murdered her instead of the other guys...

probably they might have been cheated as well

anyway back to topic

once my trust is broken, i lose it almost entirely

she's a flirty type and she's studying far away from you

how do you know what is she doing behind your back?

clubbing? flirting? kissing? hugging? enjoice sex-ing?

ask yourself this... how much do you really know about her?

it's not the worth to keep waiting forgive her unless you plan to be an angel who suffered after death

This post has been edited by Hejime: Apr 4 2009, 05:32 PM

yes it is

i forgive my ex few time ad bcoz i very love her

1)1 guy everyday also sms my gf but dint tell me n say they r fren (ok nvm)
2)he got 1 kai kor (god-bro) a.k.a her frens BF tat ass hole go my gf house n find her for SEX in the end HAIZZZZ ( after 2-3 month ) oni tell me but very angry tat time ok nvm i juz be it is over ad i continue wif her bcoz there is ntg i can do oni thing is i can make better thing in future.....
3)after quite awhile bout 1year got secret bf again when i accident saw her hp sms receive when she is in toilet tat guy call her dear n bao bei (ok juz diam diam very boring)
4)cannot tahan ad i ask her y like tat few time ad still wan like tat haizzzz she cant answer me then i get EMO ad then she say break up!!!

wat a stupid ass hole am i

This post has been edited by BuBuCai: Apr 4 2009, 05:37 PM

just dump her
once a cheater, always a cheater
she will cheat again because he likes the feeling of going out with a guy secretly, hugging and kissing secretly without u knowing it
it's an excitement for her
maybe u didn't gave any excitement in the relationship, that's why she's finding a new excitement for her

she really 'Knock You Down'

Most likely i wont forgive her even if she cheats for the first time
The trust is gone.........

Are you rubbish? If not stop hanging around with rubbish... If my GF got that kind of SMS, I'll ask her go far far away to another planet...

pLAY HER HARD THEN DUMP HER..make sure you get everything out.
Really OUT !!

You is a guy, got face one. THrow her. Dont let her fool you.

I would say dump her, or you're going to be hurt big time.

u r not getting the answer in here . u should already know the answer in ur heart . trust urself and make sure u wont regret ur decision .. life is not easy there is always a circumstance there u hv to face in life that sometime is not easy to handle. but for me , i will dump her ... i know is sad but once sad forever sad ... u wont be happy again .. this is my opinion. good luck with ur decision making !!

Dude! I jst went through what you suffered. And she's with others already. So fast. Seriously chicks nowadays. ppppfftt.. Not worth our money. Take money modify bike better than taking them to MNG, La Senza and bla bla. I was a player and she changed me. NOW?! I feel playing is more worth it =,=

Wow. My sentinments exactly.!

To TS: Dude, she brought u for a ride, its time you brought her on one. A real ROUGH one. Make sure it would be the ride of her life.

No dude, you're not. Firstly, you never declare, history or not. Secondly, if u were that good, she shoulda been back beggin YOU for more. Somebody rocked her c*nt better than you did.

U can't satisfy her on the bed?

tis is so easy... cheat also... xD

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Added on April 5, 2009, 11:22 pmya.... playing rocks.... dun get change by gf and settle down... keep playing...
once u settle... she will become player.. xD

This post has been edited by tplus1: Apr 5 2009, 11:22 PM

cantek ke tak ?

dump her. alot of girls in this world

I will go for her little sister and let her feel how i feel.

dump her!~

no. no forgive. my ex-gf flirted and fcuked with another guy. i will never be together with her again. ever. over my dead body.

once not loyal, a hundred times also cannot be used

一次不忠，白次不用

depend to the girl la
if pretty forgive them la

hahah you horny mofo!

erm... majority view, leave the girl...
i believe she's still immature, and probably she needs time to grow up.

So, perhaps, she's not yours...
only can blame timing is not correct if you very love her

not worth to hurt urself for such person...

jz dump her la.. not worth it... u can get a better one

1st time caught = fine, 2nd time caught = fined! DUMP HER!!!

dump the b****

or give her suprise....

Morning : send her msg that ask her out for dinner
Afternoon :a surprise visit to her hse or working place by sending her flowers and lunch box
Evening : bring her to candle light dinner... bring her to movie
Night : make passionate love!! when fall asleep... u leave her hse by leaving msg.... "Thanks for the SERVICE tonight... U'r DUMPED!! SLUT"

then leave and don pick her phone anymore...

seriously, girls like these are rubbish. just throw in the dustbin and find someone better

If I catch a girl cheating on me just once, its over forever. No second chances.

I got better things to do than waste time with someone who can't control herself.

wow, so cheap! how hot or sexy she is, still a plaything of others. you worth more than being her 'doormat' as mentioned by others.

this type of gal is not worth ur time ...

i know is hard to let go after all the sweet time together ..

but u need to accept fate .. try imagine if u marry already and she still cheat on u ... very sian lo ...

If its with another guy, sorry cant forgive~

Cheated once = Break up
LOL sooner or later I feel it will come again

I guess TS is somebody with high EQ and low IQ huh.

Depends on how much u love her if you really love her then you should give her freedom since she is still not your wife.
Dude i understand you but don;t you think that theres also many girl out there?
if she can do all those things why can't you?
ya mostly girl is like that they will put that under " FREEDOM "
na we human understand that we need to sacrifice something to gain something..we could never have 2 things at same time..
Just have a nice chat with her and if still can not settle..mostly because u really dun trust her anymore right?
Both chat ba

Don't even bother wasting another minute with such a woman. You might as well moved on, i'm sure you'll be able to find another just as well.

This post has been edited by akira5073: Apr 27 2009, 11:19 PM

i have to TOTALLY AGREE with u la bro......
TS... trust me.. not worth anymore.. if u still keep this r/ship, u gonna hurt urself more in the future!

The answer is obvious: Forgive her (if you can find it in yourself to do so), appreciate the good times you had and move on. A girl like that is definitely not worth sticking around for.

There's a nasty word to call these kind of girls and it starts with an S.

pity u there..and this might help..

Wah.....u so great la, kiss kiss hug hug also can forgive.
This time sms called bao bei only ma, can forgive also la.

Hey, green hat put on u from head to toes lo....wake up la
U haven't realise her motto le, that's "GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE FUN!"

for the 1st time maybe i'll make any excuse to persuade myself and forgive her, but not the 2nd time....
there still many many good and kind gal out there... go and meet 1 and forget this..
good luck..

time to move on bro.... outside there still lot of nice kawai girl waiting for u

Its not about forgiving her TS, its about letting her go