I know you're getting a lot of flack for this but I actually see your point and to a large extent, I believe it to be true. Only, I'd changed your last sentence to, "go work harder and make something of yourself". When you use the word, "money" in the manner that you did, it's not hard to see how this may reinforce the thread title.

One thing I've noticed. Instead of gaining some insight into a woman's mind, male posters are by and large, being defensive. I for one believe that superficial things like looks and wealth do matter. They aren't the only components that determine if a person likes you or not, but it doesn't hurt to have either. Sometimes I feel people are pressured into giving the "right" answer instead of the real one.

I've read many comments stating that there is little we can do when our spouse strays and I beg to differ. Keeping in shape reflects one's attitude as well. It shows we aren't lazy and we take care of ourselves. It doesn't only improve our physical health, it improves our mental one as well. When you bring up the issue of wealth, the natural tendency is for people to relate it directly to material wealth, or money in it's physcial form. What's more important is that wealth reflects attitude as well. It shows that a person worked hard to make something of himself, and the wealth is the reward. These words are as evil as some make it out to be, especially when one bothers to put in a little more thought. Too often, people react without thinking.

If you don't think, you're not here to debate. You're just here to preach your views as if it were gospel truth. That my dear, is not a debate.
Yes I do, and why do you think guys don't want to look for women who would divorce them due to financial issues? While I personally believe its a man's duty to provide, I also believe its a  woman's duty to support him and not be a leech. What's the point for us to marry someone if that person is likely to leave us when times are bad?

A male equivalent of your advice would be to go around "spend money" on women, fool around, but don't marry them. After all, a man's prerogative is to breed with as many females as possible, just as it is your prerogative to find a successful man to support you and your children. Such advice would allow him to spread his seed, keep a ready supply of fresh young women, and secure his assets from potential divorce cases. Yet, I wouldn't call such advice, good advice, would you?
If he could, but wasn't rich, he wouldn't have had the chance in the first place.
There's nothing wrong in your aims. The problem lies when you try to turn your selfish needs into advice for other girls as well, assuming that your advice would make them happy, assuming that your advice is good for society. Newsflash girl, it isn't.

Your hubby has swept you off your feet, and kudos to him, men should know how to woo their woman Now the question is, what qualities does your hubby have that you found attractive, or what is it about your hubby do you like that, that doesn't pertain to you?

Wow, I hath a female on my side

Silverhawk is our hero like alwayz. =)

actually,

some girls are money minded

some girls are not

some guys layan money minded

some guys don't.
itu saje kan? why talk until so long =.=