well, doesn't mean the poor ones doesn't go out and have mistresses as well.

exactly. sigh... women can be very stupid when it comes to the matters of the heart.

there's a lot of woman outside who doesn't care if the guy is poor / married. i have seen it first hand.

well, if you try to mix with a different social circle you'll find that the possibility is indeed very high. what are me and you but a small tiny fragment of the society? i have friends my age or younger are involved with married men, some in it for the luxury, but there are those who really pours their heart and soul into it. women are a strange species, once she's in love she'll give everything.

there are many many other gals who are not in it for the material benefits. just because the ones you've met are like that doesn't mean all gals and that way.

come on, that's just what some guys says to make themselves feel better... look around is that really true? if it is, then majority of the human species will not be married and there wouldn't be anymore children born into poor families

so only rich man/bankrupt rich man gets married?

no. i have dated different type of guys.... still prefers middle type too rich a lot of problems... and mostly crazy mothers

i'm just saying that the saying that ALL gals flocks rich men are not true. there are many others who doesn't... but all the guys wants the beautiful and glamourous type then too bad lar, if they themselves don't want to open their eyes to the others why want to complain that "all" women are materialistic?

so young and so pessimistic

being rich doesn't equate to being generous

that's just being realistic if he can't even belanja me for 1 meal how to build a life together leh... money minded sounds so urghhh lar

you go temple be monk lar

you're from lala land?

the people you have named are all celebrities. have it every occur to you, them having their successes, fame and $$ makes it harder for them to find Mr. Right? how many of the average guys are bold enough to even approach them? furthermore, they're of a different social circles etc... and hence the same beings often do flock together. it's normal for the rich to marry the rich.

guys, ask yourself truthfully. how many here would actually feel secure with a gal who's richer and more career driven than yourself??

well of course if the gal is the bred winner than the guy have to be the house maker... both have to contribute to the family of course

the thing is how many guys could suck up their pride and do that?

dom dom.. if got guy like that i don't mind being the bread winner

@ aaronlim you think woman give birth tak sakit?