On the contrary, men also choose girls with certain bodyshape because subconsciously, a girl with a certain body shape will have a better chance of conceiving babies. Girls has demands and so also guys, fair??

Correct me if I am wrong, we are talking about the subconcious mind,

girl like confident and ambitious guy, no need to be rich for one reason, because when a guy is confident and ambitious means the guy may not need to be rich now, but chances of being rich is there when he is confident or ambitious.

When a guy is confident and sure of himself, he can take better control of situations, guy may be rich, he may not know how to do chores, take care of situations also useless, just pure money simply will not work.

Girls like romantic guys, they are always hoping for their prince charming, though they deny it but deep down inside that's what they want.

Girls are always insecure, try to compliment they are pretty, no matter how pretty a girl they are so insecured.

I agree with you absolutely, no doubt about that, money does not win over true love, some parents don't even have money to buy milk powder for their babies. My gosh, what about medical fees which is more important, I don't despise poor people, but if you don't have money don't make babies, marry still ok but best don't, but make babies, I am a true believer of true love but at the same time I am realistic, I know no money don't get married and have a gf. Even if a girl I truly love with all my heart says she is willing to suffer with me I am not willing. I know the difference, true love is important but at the same time must be realistic so I never blame a girl to look for a guy with money(not rich, but enough money to support the family) , of course good character also important. But of course poor people do get married, so it's not always true about money as security but most of the time it's true.

This post has been edited by monashguy: Apr 25 2009, 04:14 PM

yeah lor, some people is not realistic, true love is important but without money a relationship will not last, but that doesn't mean that you are rich you can get any girl. Without money, marriage and relationships will and shall breakdown, I used to believe in true love alone and money not a problem but as I am older now, I know that is simply not the case.

Personally I will be choosing the girl that earns 3k a month coz if I really like the girl, I don't care if she earning 100 billion a month or 3k a month, but I know the difference, love cannot last without money, but that doesn't means money must dictate everything, as long got enough money to buy groceries, and house and transport to work and food and children, enough. Nothing more, nothing less.

Good day moorish,
In your situation there is no right or wrong, each girl has their right to choose their happyness, some girls choose true love over all else and end up with poor husbands, some choose love but at the same time financial security, and I agree. Which girl or human wants to live poor, so I understand also, I can tolerate woman who wants security aka husband has a decent job and can support her but what I am really against is woman that just care nothing but money only. Moorish, I approve of your thinking and character, as I stated my belief and position clearly, i am a strong believer of true love but at the same time I know without money, if you have babies, how to buy milk, send education, medical fees and etc etc. Yes true love is important but must be realistic also, that is why I don't plan to have a gf until I got a strong financial standing. I like one girl now and I believe she likes me back, but I am not making a move and I am pretty sure one day someone might like her, but I rather lose her than her to be together with a guy that cannot provide her, infact I rather be single my whole life than to married a girl when my financial is not good, people say I live in an ok house and my parents is doing ok but that's my fathers money, and the fact that I am no good in earning money, even if one day I become rich due to parents and other people, it will not last if I cannot plan my financial wise. So It's me that must change before I want to date any girls, I do not like girls to suffer because of me.

Top 10 reasons why people divorce and the number 1 reason is money!! Believe me, I used to think like you, if you live like a tribal nomad in Mongolia, then I guess it's ok but not in Malaysia and definitely not in Kuala Lumpur.


http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/3...le_divorce.html

This post has been edited by monashguy: Apr 29 2009, 02:32 PM

hey bro, please forgive me, I am not finding fault with you, you got IQ 160 but you have a too simplistic view of life I think.

wah so long the story still haven't ended, 41 pages until I also lazy to argue with everyone.

so your husband is now calling you to bed??