geez you made it sound like all the guys are so loyal and faithful
all those divorce cases and all those I know about man fooling around must be a myth

and what about you Mr. full of pride with flowery writtings? what do you think is the correct answer?

marrying a bum if both are truly truly in love, how long would the marriage last with a baby in it?
since you promote love is more important than financial stability.

answer me this in public with a simple short answer instead of giving us the tl:dr answers

marriage without love but plenty of cash will last a life time...seen plenty.
marriage without money chances of it crashing is like a plane flying midway running out of fuel.

I just read the first post, i would say the going for the rich guys only is bit kaw cheong le. Admittedly not everyone can be filthly rich and most who are probably are the uncle uncle though doesnt mean we all dun want to be rich. So limit oneself like dat is being a bit shallow le.
I was watching this interesting documentary on Astro about human behaviors and how we choose our partners. Is true that for guys, to be able to get with the most attractive of the female species we have to be the most dominant. But then, girls have to remember this. U are not the only one girl on the earth and there are more attractive girls than urselves. SO would a rich(dominant) guy choose u over the other more good looking ones. You can say i've got all the time in the world. But really do u? Girls dun age as well as guys especially those who jaga the health and wellbeing. So unless you are like a super model and dun mind being with rich fat uncles, i would say instead of choosing a partner based on ur checklist, why not just be spontaneous and have fun in the process?

And yes...i DO feel ignored.

Be happy to!

Its like this, you like to dine at expensive restaurant. But ppl tell you expensive resturant no point, as long as the food is good where also same.

But then u come back and say "eating in expensive restaurants important ma! who want to eat plain bread everyday? you tell me!!!!! you can eat plain bread everyday or not! ofcoz not! so eating at expensive restaurants is the only way to go!!!"

See the problem with that sort of thinking?

Waaaa..that one asking for trouble la. I think in the first place, one shuld ask on wat the institution of marriage means? Remember the foundation i was talking abt? Apart from dat, how many time have you been on a meaningful relationship? If u were, chances are u wouldnt be mistakening relationship building to wealth building. Both are important in life. But both des not outweigh the other. And even worse when u try to mix both together.

for me, women need to be financially independent and yes,of course, it is a HUGE plus point if the bf or husband is rich.

being rich is not THE no.1 priority..it is self improvement .