Haiz, knock on his door, then give him a hug, comfort him and share a beer mah. Lei chan hai mmm sek chow. 

Did you also know that women choose guys who can give them good sperm?

Is also animal instinct. Heehee 

Well, in countries and societies where women no longer need to rely on men for financial support, men are used and abused with disturbing regularity.

Being ONLY a provider is a fool's game, but it is sad that this type of thinking is so prevalent in mainstream Chinese culture.